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Old 04-12-2012, 12:55 AM   #1
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Oldest dd and anger

So we were at savers (thrift store) the other day and there was a pair of justice sweat pants and a pair of heelys, both in my middle dds size. Anyway my oldest dd asks me if I'm going to give them to middle dd. then she tells me she rather I sell them on eBay because when she sees something she really likes and can't have it makes her really angry. And it's do true! She gets so angry if her sisters or anyone really has something she really likes. She also will get really angry if she outgrows clothes and I pass them down. She will try to wear clothes that are way too small just so I won't pass them down.

I don't know what to do About this. She also gets angry if say she gets a pair of pants and her sister wants the same ones (they are only 15 months apart). Even if her sister chooses it first. Middle dd is constantly afraid to say what she really wants because she's afraid oldest dd will be mad. She's also started saying she doesn't like the hand me downs when I know darn well she does but she just doesn't want my oldest to be mad at her!

I've tried talking to her but seems like it does no good. This can't be good for her well being! Advice?

P.s. she gets the most new new clothes since she's the oldest and there's nobody to pass down to her. And her personal things, like jewelry and books I don't pass down so to speak. So it's not like she has to share everything but it would also be rediculous to not pass down her clothes when she has four younger sisters!
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