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Old 03-24-2007, 03:55 AM   #1
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What do you think she is *really* saying?

Ok...I have my theory...just want to know if I am way off base. What do you think her analogy really means:



So…you know when you find something out about your life that no matter how it works out will still change it completely? Yeah, well that happened to me. It's a weird place to be. It's like no matter what decisions I make, the outcome is still gonna suck. That or at least have an extremely potent impact on my well-being and any others involved. As a young college student trying (and somewhat struggling) with the last couple semesters of her schooling, life-changing events seem to pop up all over the place.

It's like a musician that has unknowingly created a masterpiece, but as chance would have it, it's not time for it to be presented. The musician realizes that the beautiful piece of music has to be shared now or have to be put away forever. There is no "saving it" for a more convenient time. There are, of course some options this musician can take. He can go through with it and take the criticisms and the stresses of ill-timing perhaps hindering the piece from reaching its full potential. Or perhaps he could give his piece away to another composer and musician who can perform it as his or her own piece…never seeing his masterpiece again, but knowing it is getting the "life" as it were that it deserves to live. One always knows that music should never be hidden away…but sometimes that seems like the only logical option—to get rid of it.

It's not like the musician will never write again. In fact, there is a great chance that at a better time, inspiration could strike again bigger and better than this time, and another masterpiece will be produced. It's still hard though. Because even though in this moment it seems the best decision to just be rid of this piece which has become more of a problem, it is still a part of the musician. It flowed from the depths of his being and touched him there. Just destroying it without a second thought simply isn't possible, and when it is anyway…well, it hurts. Even if you've had to do it before., anytime a part of you gets taken away, it hurts.

I'm not saying my life is near that intense or dramatic (or perhaps it is exactly), but perhaps if anyone reads this, they'll understand where I'm coming from since this applies to a lot of different aspects of life. Just know that living with any sort if regret is a waste of time, so don't. But I think that anyone can agree it's ok to hurt a little when you know you're going to lose something. Something that will change your life forever (either good or bad)…something that could be beautiful.

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Old 03-24-2007, 04:35 AM   #2
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Re: What do you think she is *really* saying?

Who's words are these? She's pregnant is what comes to mind...
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Old 03-24-2007, 07:31 AM   #3
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pregnant was my thought as well, I really can't think of anything else that would give rise to an analogy like that. Maybe she has an opportunity of some sort (to travel or work?) that doesn't really fit with her life right now, but it's a great opportunity nonetheless?
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Old 03-24-2007, 07:42 AM   #4
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My thought was love...a relationship..maybe someone who isn't receptive to her feelings or isn't available.
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Old 03-24-2007, 09:19 AM   #5
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Yep I agree sounds like a pregnancy.
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in love and just found out that the man is married?

That, or pregnancy.
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Old 03-24-2007, 10:41 AM   #7
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I'm not good at this kind of stuff, but I thought it had to do with a relationship.
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this could be SO many things. it is written way too open.
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Old 03-24-2007, 12:28 PM   #10
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to me it is an OPEN space.. it could be anything really
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