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Old 06-22-2011, 03:34 PM   #11
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I know exactly what you mean. DD is 3 months, also. I have to MAKE myself cuddle with my other 2 kiddos (when they want it) and its miserable. I make myself give DH attention, too. We don't dtd very often but I help him out. Only recently have I started to want to cuddle with him even a little bit.
All of this started towards the end of the pg, but it got worse after she was born. Also, I don't want anyone else to hold her. And my ODD wants to all of the time. She'll come over and give the baby kisses and I will want to push her away. Its miserable but it'll get better, right?


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Old 06-22-2011, 03:34 PM   #12
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I am right there with you! I do enjoy cuddling with DH and my 2 other boys, in fact I feel bad for them that they don't get as much cuddle time as they used to. But yes, I am SO not interested in sex right now. We did once and it was uncomfortable. I felt like my parts were going to burn up! Ugh! Just need better lubrication I guess. But this is our 3rd so I am really tired from being with 3 boys all day, so by nighttime, I am ready to crawl in bed and pass out.
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