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Old 09-01-2012, 02:36 PM   #1
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Somedays I have that "What was wrong with me" attitude

My ex lefy 5 years ago. Our boys were 1 and 2. He was involved with another woman. They got engaged right after our divorce was final ( took us 1.5 years). Got married after we'd been split for two years. They have a 2.5 year old. Their marriage is still going strong. Every now and then I get in this pity party mode. I hate these time. Wish I could get over it but sometimes I wonder what was so intolerable about me


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Old 09-02-2012, 07:13 AM   #2
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Nothing is wrong with you. I'm guessing she puts up with a lot more crap than you did? He had no problems cheating on you with her, do you really believe he's staying faithful now?

My ex is with one of the girls he cheated on me with. Their relationship looks good from the outside, but I've been in her position, I know it sucks. She just thinks that's the best she'll ever get and let's him get away with everything.

I understand the pity party though and I'm sorry for that. He sucks. She sucks. You're awesome
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Old 09-07-2012, 01:14 PM   #3
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Re: Somedays I have that "What was wrong with me" attitude

Sometimes two people just aren't meant to be together. It doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you and it doesn't mean there is something wrong with him. Sometimes people just aren't good together.

Don't beat yourself up about it, or feel like you did something wrong. You're perfect just as you are.
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Old 09-15-2012, 11:30 PM   #4
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Hugs mama, try not to beat yourself up.
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