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Old 05-23-2013, 12:59 PM   #1
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I seriously can't believe I'm writing this

I feel so stupid. Please judge in your head because I am freaking out.

I am 5 wks PP and you would think DH and I are horny teenagers because we had unprotected sex two nights ago. I am not BFing so I don't know wtf we were thinking. He is cool as a cucumber about this! I am about to have a stroke. :/ those that know me IRL please don't say anything!

Here are the stats:
TMI but he pulled out (I told him to or he would've just kept going) but still finished in that general area. Sorry to be so crude, how humiliating....

I am 6 wks PP this Sunday. Basically no bleeding for several days now, an today EWCM which is why I wrote this finally today.

I have an appt tues for Mirena which I've had before after DS1. So only 1 wk after DTD.

What do I do? Call the dr and admit DH and I are a couple dumb horny people? I don't want to have mirena implanted if it will hurt the baby which I am assuming it would kill the baby which is not an option. I know they do a urine test but 7 days is pushing it especially if I ovulated today. Right? Do I need to reschedule the appt?

Help, I am not a sex ed expert. EWCM means fertile does it not?

How bad is it to have c/s so close?? I know it's not good!

How could we be so dumb!!

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Old 05-23-2013, 01:12 PM   #2
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Crashing your ddc....

I would ask for a blood test prior to Mirena insertion. And maybe postpone it a week.

I got pregnant 8 weeks Pp, with no pp af, and using spermicidal foam.... Anything is possible.
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Old 05-23-2013, 01:14 PM   #3
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Tough spot. I would certainly speak to your doctor. When I had mine inserted several children ago our office required a blood pregnancy test the day of insertion. Maybe that is an option? Don't be embarrassed you are FAR from the only people to have this scare.
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Old 05-23-2013, 01:15 PM   #4
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Will a blood test show a positive that early?
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Old 05-23-2013, 01:24 PM   #5
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They told me that a serum pregnancy test can detect 1 week. So I would push it back until 10 days after dtd then have the serum pg test, just to make sure. I have to be abstinent 14 days prior to insertion of any iud and then have a serum test.
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Old 05-23-2013, 01:36 PM   #6
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Yeah, better postpone and make sure. Definitely call doc and explain situation, they should know what tests to do. Your probably not preggo, but I would personally want to be sure. FX everything is OK!!!
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Old 05-23-2013, 01:40 PM   #7
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Re: I seriously can't believe I'm writing this

You don't have to "humiliate" yourself and give the whole breakdown with them. You can simply say "we had unprotected sex once and I would like to be sure I am not pregnant before I get this." And ftr, you don't need to feel bad about this. Keep the negative phrases and emotions out of the conversation and be matter of fact with your doctor's office. These things happen all the time. Wishing you calm!
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Old 05-23-2013, 01:51 PM   #8
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I called and they said to keep the 6 wk appt for a check up and we will schedule another appt for Mirena if I'm not pregnant.

I can't believe I'm in a two wk wait again. I am pretty stressed, two c/s due to HELLP syndrome and we weren't even sure about a third kiddo.
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I think you've handled it just about as well as you can, with calling and letting the office know, have a blood test and go from there.
And, to be honest - !!
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I'm glad you've got a good time frame set up. But seriously, you're married, you're not horny teenagers. You have an actual license to bump uglies whenever you darn well please. Don't be embarrassed.

Sorry for crashing!
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