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Old 12-11-2010, 09:08 PM   #11
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YOU RUINED NOTHING. The BF RUINED CHRISTMAS. You protected that little girl. Be proud that you stood up for a child that could not do that for herself. Keep records of any threats or strange occurrences and report them. If that continues take it to the police and ask for a restraining order. Any child that expresses sexual abuse should be taken serious and reported. The mom should be thanking you that you stood up for her daughter who was abused. However, it is hard to believe that the person you love could be harming your child.

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Old 12-11-2010, 09:15 PM   #12
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You did the right thing! If you are worried about them doing something I would see if you could file a ppo or something since you did not remain anonymous.
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Old 12-12-2010, 02:20 PM   #13
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YoU did not ruin their Christmas, That Awful man ruined it.

Somebody needed to protect her and you did your job.
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Old 12-12-2010, 04:02 PM   #14
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((HUGS)) Mama. You did what needed to be done. You would never have forgiven yourself if you hadn't.
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You did the right thing -- what were you supposed to do talk to them and give them a chance to cover it up? I would assume they would only remove kids when they are in danger, including if the boyfriend was still in the house and they didn't trust the other adults in her life to protect her.
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YOU RUINED NOTHING. The BF RUINED CHRISTMAS. You protected that little girl. Be proud that you stood up for a child that could not do that for herself. Keep records of any threats or strange occurrences and report them. If that continues take it to the police and ask for a restraining order. Any child that expresses sexual abuse should be taken serious and reported. The mom should be thanking you that you stood up for her daughter who was abused. However, it is hard to believe that the person you love could be harming your child.
I bolded part of that quote because it is soooo true!!!

I will repeat everyone else on here---you did the right thing!
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Old 12-13-2010, 09:34 PM   #17
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YoU did not ruin their Christmas, That Awful man ruined it.

Somebody needed to protect her and you did your job.
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Old 12-13-2010, 09:47 PM   #18
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Maybe the mother should WAKE UP and break up with the boyfriend. Im sure she is still together with him.

YOU did the right thing. YOU SAVED THIS GIRL from years of being abused.....and raped..... THANK YOU!!!!
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Maybe the mother should WAKE UP and break up with the boyfriend. Im sure she is still together with him.

YOU did the right thing. YOU SAVED THIS GIRL from years of being abused.....and raped..... THANK YOU!!!!
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YOU did the right thing. YOU SAVED THIS GIRL from years of being abused.....and raped..... THANK YOU!!!!
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