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Old 04-29-2013, 06:24 AM   #301
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your baby looks just like she is sleeping. i didnt read thru to find the reason for her death but I am so sorry for you. my heart aches and throat swollen :/
The doctors told me it was a "medical mystery" pertaining to her death. I had thought about seeking legal assistance but decided to decline. I need to somehow move forward and that would've just put me back into the thick of grief. I had to spend my day at a baby shower too with af. It just never ends.
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Old 04-30-2013, 07:42 AM   #302
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i have heard that before. sometimes its the placenta that just stops giving oxygen or the heart for some reason or another gives out. it would be just as hard to not know.
i cannot imagine your pain. i grieved over my 1st 6 week loss for 6 yrs and its absolutely nothing like your situation. many hugs.
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Old 04-30-2013, 12:05 PM   #303
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Mama, I just reread this post and your blog. I am so, so sorry for your loss, My daughter was born last July and lived for two hours. While not the same, we both have empty arms and it hurts.

Baby center has some forums that have been so helpful for me. The one I like to go to is carrying/carried to term despite poor prenatal diagnosis and there is also one for stillbirth/perinatal loss. It's been healing to be able to share with other mamas who have walked the same hard road.

Anyway, not sure if you knew about it I wanted to pass it along.
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I just read your story and I am so sorry for your loss, she really does look like she could just wake up from her pictures...my older sister was still born....sometimes I like to imagine her around...they always have a place in our hearts...
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i have heard that before. sometimes its the placenta that just stops giving oxygen or the heart for some reason or another gives out. it would be just as hard to not know.
i cannot imagine your pain. i grieved over my 1st 6 week loss for 6 yrs and its absolutely nothing like your situation. many hugs.

We had an early mc too, wasn't nothing like Stella's loss. But still dh seemed to take the mc harder then this.

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Mama, I just reread this post and your blog. I am so, so sorry for your loss, My daughter was born last July and lived for two hours. While not the same, we both have empty arms and it hurts.

Baby center has some forums that have been so helpful for me. The one I like to go to is carrying/carried to term despite poor prenatal diagnosis and there is also one for stillbirth/perinatal loss. It's been healing to be able to share with other mamas who have walked the same hard road.

Anyway, not sure if you knew about it I wanted to pass it along.
Blessings,
Thank you.
I almost feel too far into grief to be in any support groups. The constant rehash I feel may make it worse?
I was in many online groups right after she died, but now I just deal with it all alone, or here on DS in SS.

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I just read your story and I am so sorry for your loss, she really does look like she could just wake up from her pictures...my older sister was still born....sometimes I like to imagine her around...they always have a place in our hearts...
I wish she would've. I remember dh holding her and he had his hand under her head in the blanket, he moved his and and I thought she was moving. Talk about hope and crushing realization of heartbreak in seconds.
for your sister. I can't imagine the love and hope you brought back into your family.
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This is so sad to have to experience something like this! I can't imagine, my heart is aching for you and your family! This brought me to tears, She is so beautiful! Thinking of you mama!
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This is so sad to have to experience something like this! I can't imagine, my heart is aching for you and your family! This brought me to tears, She is so beautiful! Thinking of you mama!
These words exactly.
Hugs and prayers your way and your strength is inspiring.

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She is precious. Made me cry especially looking at how beautiful she is.
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Happy 3rd birthday Stella.
I miss you.
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Happy 3rd birthday Stella.
I miss you.
Mama, I know this is a hard day for you. I just wanted to take the opportunity to tell you how much I admire your strength. I will be thinking of you today.
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