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Old 04-14-2011, 09:15 AM   #411
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Re: TTC while BFing GRADS & Greats!!!

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I know whatever you decide to do will be the right thing for you and your family.
I sure hope so---I still need to figure out where hubby stands on this subject.

He's still not ready for the having-sex part.

I, however, am ready to molest him

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I sure hope so---I still need to figure out where hubby stands on this subject.

He's still not ready for the having-sex part.

I, however, am ready to molest him
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Old 04-14-2011, 03:12 PM   #413
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Marie: good luck and




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Old 04-17-2011, 12:23 AM   #414
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Re: TTC while BFing GRADS & Greats!!!

Looks like the decision as to whether to TTC or not is decided.

My hubby NEVER initiates the lovin'---until tonight. Apparently, an absolutely exhausted wife who has spent the last 48 hours breaking her back cleaning the house, lots of pressure at work and last minute inspections and going to work at 0500 on a Saturday and sudden drop-in house guests is a total aphrodisiac for him. As soon as Smidget was asleep, he kindof attacked me. I was so in the "he never initiates sex!!!" mind-frame that I forgot to mention to him that he is supposed to pull out til June...and that I noticed EWCM today...

We haven't prevented pregnancy (except with Mirena for 11 months, but we didn't have to DO anything or think about it) since Sept 2007. The 3 months we were told to not TTC after my cancer surgery in 2008, we just didn't bother to have sex and did *cough* other things to relieve the tension.

I'm sitting here going "holy crap" and having lots of other 4 letter words flying through my mind at break-neck sped----hence the late night posting from me. OMG!

Guess I can go ahead and head on over to the other thread and have myself put on the NTNP list, huh? *sigh*

Guess I'll be testing May 2...which is the first working day after I expect my possible period to come if it shows on time (or at all!!!)---I want to test while hubby is at work and give myself a few days before I need to work (photographer) so that I can concentrate on what I'm doing. I mostly work weekends, so Monday is the best day that fits both...so May 2nd it is unless I start barfing beforehand! EEP!
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Well, I'm glad you got some lovin'!
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Congrats Marie. I'm glad your DH is interested again.
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Woohoo!!!! Go Marie!
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I'm glad too. I needed that after 3.5 months without!
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Marie - Glad you got some lovin from DH. I only had 1 period between my loss & this pregnancy. My dr said to wait at least 2 periods. Oh well! I read somewhere that your mc is like having 1 period. So that made me feel better... I'm at 13 weeks. Listening to baby via doppler every night and saw him last week. Yep, it's another boy. I totally get you on the fear of having another mc though. I'm still not very relaxed with this pregnancy yet. It's weird being pregnant again and being due 10/22 when I should be having a baby 7/5.
I read on another thread that your ds is picking up on his nursing again. My ds did the same thing after my mc. I noticed that I also had more milk tho because my body thought the baby I lost was there too. Anyway, all that to say I understand what you are going thru and I pray you get a baby in the very soon future.
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Old 04-19-2011, 01:39 AM   #420
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Marie - Glad you got some lovin from DH. I only had 1 period between my loss & this pregnancy. My dr said to wait at least 2 periods. Oh well! I read somewhere that your mc is like having 1 period. So that made me feel better... I'm at 13 weeks. Listening to baby via doppler every night and saw him last week. Yep, it's another boy. I totally get you on the fear of having another mc though. I'm still not very relaxed with this pregnancy yet. It's weird being pregnant again and being due 10/22 when I should be having a baby 7/5.
I read on another thread that your ds is picking up on his nursing again. My ds did the same thing after my mc. I noticed that I also had more milk tho because my body thought the baby I lost was there too. Anyway, all that to say I understand what you are going thru and I pray you get a baby in the very soon future.
Thanks--- its nice to know that I'm not alone (even if I wish this group were smaller)

I am even more nervous because I was so far along...I'm going to be a total wreck til I hear a heartbeat on my doppler and you best believe I will be listening every damn day!

If I am preg ill be due around new years...so I could still get my 2011 baby if I deliver early. Only time will tell, of course....is it May yet?
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