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Old 05-14-2011, 12:46 AM   #501
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Re: TTC while BFing GRADS & Greats!!!

UGH! I got baby into bed early-ish. I had lots of time to do the dirty deeds with my hubby...and as soon as I get a diaper on the baby to put him to bed, hubby's high school BFF shows up (he's here for training for 3 months) and talks for 3 hours----its now 11:45pm and I'm DEAD on my feet, but I'm trying to stay up so I can get laid.

So far, hubby has only put out ONCE during O time. COME ON PEOPLE!!! The uterus is only receptive for a few days. Z has tried to leave 3 times and DH brings up another subject right as he's walking out the door and gets them going again.

I've never heard 2 men talk so much in my damn life!!! Ugh! I NEED TO GET LAID!!!

Would it be rude for me to go in there and say "okay, I almost never get alone time with my husband and I'm ovulating now, so you need to get the heck out of my house so I can do horrible things to my hubby and maybe get a baby?!?"

Z has a pregnant wife at home (3000 miles away) who is due the week after I was due and I just want to scream at him out of 1/2 jealousy and 1/2 frustration.

Plus, during O time my libido kicks into high-gear and I've been ready to attack my hubby (and planning my attack) since he came home early at 2pm and our son was asleep for his nap and I ALMOST got laid...but when hubby turned off the TV before coming into the bedroom (DS was asleep on the couch), the little one woke up, so I lost out

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Old 05-14-2011, 05:38 AM   #502
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Marie ~ I hope you got some!
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Old 05-14-2011, 05:49 AM   #503
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Ahh Marie, I hope he left and you got what you wanted.
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Old 05-14-2011, 08:41 AM   #504
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Ahh Marie, I hope he left and you got what you wanted.

nope. Z was here talking to hubby til 2am.

I went to bed at 1.

hubby slept on the couch.

But its okay. I'll get pregnant, he INTENDED to come have sex with me, so its all better.
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Old 05-16-2011, 07:50 AM   #505
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I FINALLY got laid last night. I ovulated either sometime yesterday morning up to this morning. I had twinges around my ovaries yesterday afternoon/evening, so I'm hoping we (pun intended) did it in time.

When we did the deed last night (TMI) we had 3 things that have seemed to work every time I've gotten pregnant:

1) Hubby initiated sex.
2) Toward the end of the ovulation window
3) The sex was good--like very good.
4) During sex, he was hitting the end of the tunnel and my cervix---which he's done every time I get pregnant---I can tell if I'm right at O day by how it feels when we have sex because my cervix gets very tender and almost painful---but like "good painful" as they say.


So, fingers crossed. My birthday is in 12 days, so I'll start testing then.


Also---on a side note---I've had friends give birth on 5/12, 5/13, 5/14 this week and had 2 friends get their BFPs on 5/15 and 5/16 this week....ALL of these people started trying WAY after hubby and I did. I spent yesterday morning crying in hubby's arms in our bed because its not fair and I miss my lost little babies and everyone I now, basically, has a baby.
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Hoping you get your BFP by your birthday
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crossing my fingers for you!!!
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Re: TTC while BFing GRADS & Greats!!!

I started having EWCM again after just a few days (like 4-5DPO) with my last pregnancy. I honestly thought I was Oing (like that I hadn't O'd the first time and was going to O for real this time). So I took an OPK 5 days later since I normally get EWCM for 4-5 days before I O (this was at 9 or 10 DPO) and had an almost positive. The next day I had a positive OPK and my friend said "take an HPT too, just to be sure" becuase she got her BFP that day---and turns out I got a BFP!!!

I'm 4DPO and noticed EWCM this morning when I went to the bathroom, so I am hoping its a good sign and not just residual EWCM. Normally its watery by now. That's my only symptom so far.

Oh, and last night my hubby asked me "are you pregnant again?" because I thought something was too salty and he was enjoying it (i LOVE salty foods and hubby doesn't normally). He said my tastebuds only get that screwed up when I'm pregnant...but that's the only food that's been weird to me. Except I am craving OJ (but I do that sometimes even when not pregnant)

Probably a coincidence, but strange none-the-less.
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I hope that's a good sign for you! and for a bfp for you this month!
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Hope that this is it for you! That was a definite sign for me too.
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