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Old 03-31-2011, 10:30 PM   #11
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Negative mama. If she has a valid reason later as to why the lack of contact, you may request an edit to feedback if you wish

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Old 04-01-2011, 01:28 AM   #12
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Normally I'd say negative but seeing as she hasn't been on ds nor contested the claim or emptied her paypal account, I wonder if she has had some sort of emergency. When people are scamming and disapear, they usually empty their paypal account. She didn't respond to any pms, emails, or even the paypal claim so I would probably give her the benefit of the doubt and leave no feedback at all.
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Old 04-01-2011, 04:08 AM   #13
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Normally I'd say negative but seeing as she hasn't been on ds nor contested the claim or emptied her paypal account, I wonder if she has had some sort of emergency. When people are scamming and disapear, they usually empty their paypal account. She didn't respond to any pms, emails, or even the paypal claim so I would probably give her the benefit of the doubt and leave no feedback at all.
I agree. You can always leave neutral FB too
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Old 04-01-2011, 02:47 PM   #14
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Well, I hated to do it but I went ahead and left negative feedback. But I did leave a personal message to the mama that IF she ever comes back on to DS and PMs me and has a valid explanation for all this that I'd see if a mod will let me go and edit my feedback, as happy2Bamommy suggested.

I really hope she's doing ok.
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Old 04-01-2011, 03:21 PM   #15
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Well, I hated to do it but I went ahead and left negative feedback. But I did leave a personal message to the mama that IF she ever comes back on to DS and PMs me and has a valid explanation for all this that I'd see if a mod will let me go and edit my feedback, as happy2Bamommy suggested.

I really hope she's doing ok.
Wow! This all sounds incredibly familiar as I just had the same thing happen to me with a seller! Same timing and everything! I wonder if its the same person?! I left a negative and heard from a mod that she has created several accounts and she is online using the others. I too got a pp refund and she never responded to anything!
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Well, I hated to do it but I went ahead and left negative feedback. But I did leave a personal message to the mama that IF she ever comes back on to DS and PMs me and has a valid explanation for all this that I'd see if a mod will let me go and edit my feedback, as happy2Bamommy suggested.

I really hope she's doing ok.
I experienced the same situation a couple months ago... seller never responded to DS messages, personal emails, or even to the PP dispute! But I used her email address (from paypal) to search for her on facebook and sent her a message there, which she promptly responded to, and I finally got the diaper I had bought from her.... kind of lame that she ignored everything (even a paypal dispute!) but facebook
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Unless she is in the ICU on a ventilator, she should have been able to email you briefly. If she has problems so huge that she was literally unable to type on her keyboard for this long, she has a lot bigger problems than a negative FB on DS. I think what you did was just fine.
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Old 04-04-2011, 07:25 AM   #18
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Wow! This all sounds incredibly familiar as I just had the same thing happen to me with a seller! Same timing and everything! I wonder if its the same person?! I left a negative and heard from a mod that she has created several accounts and she is online using the others. I too got a pp refund and she never responded to anything!
Really?! Huh. PMing you...

The weird thing is, the mama I was dealing with had several items for sale and several of them had been sold when she and I had our transaction. (And at least one of the buyers posted to the FSOT thread to mention that she had the diaper...I forget why, because that is kind of unusual...but I remember that.) So it never crossed my mind that we'd have a bad transaction. So I'm guessing whatever happened to her or whatever she did must have come up right before she sold the diaper to me. Or, soemthing.
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Old 04-04-2011, 07:50 AM   #19
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Wow! This all sounds incredibly familiar as I just had the same thing happen to me with a seller! Same timing and everything! I wonder if its the same person?! I left a negative and heard from a mod that she has created several accounts and she is online using the others. I too got a pp refund and she never responded to anything!

Uhhhhhhh...is she still using them? I hope they banned her!
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Old 04-04-2011, 07:53 AM   #20
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I experienced the same situation a couple months ago... seller never responded to DS messages, personal emails, or even to the PP dispute! But I used her email address (from paypal) to search for her on facebook and sent her a message there, which she promptly responded to, and I finally got the diaper I had bought from her.... kind of lame that she ignored everything (even a paypal dispute!) but facebook
I'm sorry you had to go through all that too, but what a great idea to search the e-mail on facebook. I wish I'd have thought of that.
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