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Old 04-02-2011, 06:30 AM   #41
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My personal favorite is when people say that nursing a boy past infancy will make him gay. I'd really love to know how that works, considering it will only enhance his love of boobs (plus, the obvious DUH that nothing "turns" you gay, but I digress...).

As for DH? His boobie needs come second. If mama is touched out, he has the other 98% of her body to touch.
I could almost understand a person thinking that nursing a GIRL past infancy might turn her gay (it's stupid but I could see an ignorant person feeling that way) but a boy? HOw does that even make sense!

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As for DH? His boobie needs come second. If mama is touched out, he has the other 98% of her body to touch.
For sure. NO ONE has rights to my breasts. Well, no other adults. My children have a right to eat, but DH want's to be grabby? Tough crap. BFing is hard work, nothing I hate more than pumping for 30 mins, nursing DS for a hour, rolling over to go to sleep and there is DH trying for a grab. Really? These are working boobs. When they are on vacation, or retired they will come out and play. Until then, too bad.
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For sure. NO ONE has rights to my breasts. Well, no other adults. My children have a right to eat, but DH want's to be grabby? Tough crap. BFing is hard work, nothing I hate more than pumping for 30 mins, nursing DS for a hour, rolling over to go to sleep and there is DH trying for a grab. Really? These are working boobs. When they are on vacation, or retired they will come out and play. Until then, too bad.
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I'm loving this thread...you gals are cracking me up!

I've come to the realization that people who say these ignorant things have never breastfed; because it you have you'll know there is nothing sexual about it.
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For sure. NO ONE has rights to my breasts. Well, no other adults. My children have a right to eat, but DH want's to be grabby? Tough crap. BFing is hard work, nothing I hate more than pumping for 30 mins, nursing DS for a hour, rolling over to go to sleep and there is DH trying for a grab. Really? These are working boobs. When they are on vacation, or retired they will come out and play. Until then, too bad.
yup, this is hard for sure. But, think about our DH/SOs. We give them unlimited access (usually) and then after we have babies, it's no touchy, leave them alone for the next two years or so. That's no fun for the guys too. There has to be a happy medium, KWIM? Like I said in a previous post, many body parts are both sexual and non sexual, but that doesn't mean it's all or nothing. Breasts are sexual too as well as serving a nonsexual function. Believe me I get all touched out too, but......
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