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Old 04-08-2011, 07:03 PM   #1
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Please pray for our family. We showed great kindness to a lady in need from our church. She has now decided that we did not give enough of ourselves to help her and doing everything she can to harm us. No one is in physical danger but she is working to cause many problems in our life. Right now I'm over 39 weeks pregnant and the stress is making me sick. Please just pray that she will back off and just take herself completely out of our lives.

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Old 04-08-2011, 08:16 PM   #2
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and It sounds like she may have some deep-seeded issues that need therapy. It's so frustrating though to do what you can and then still experience the ungratefulness and stress. Know that you did everything right! And will be blessed for your actions!
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Old 04-09-2011, 06:03 PM   #3
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Can you talk to her and get to the root of her issues with your family? It sounds like misdirected anger for sure!
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DH has talked to her a couple times. She does have mental issues so I know that is part of it. I just want her to move on.
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praying for you......sounds stressful for sure!
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Praying for you and your family...and it sounds like this lady needs some prayers too! You are only responsible for your actions...not hers.
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I'm so sorry that you've received heartache and trouble from reaching out. I really hope that her reaction doesn't make you hesitant to reach out in the future. Can your pastor help at all?
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and for you. Please don't get easily offended by her.
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