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Old 04-19-2011, 05:38 PM   #1
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Old 04-19-2011, 05:52 PM   #2
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I am so sorry that happened!!! I would be so upset! Hugs!
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Old 04-19-2011, 05:58 PM   #3
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I would be upset and letting her know she needs to replace it. She was lent it on the understanding you wanted it back no you can not even use it. Even if you can afford it she needs to be taught how to respect other peoples things.
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That sucks big time mama.
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I am so sorry. I would be totally pissed too. Yeah.... totally pissed.
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Wow that was really disrespectful for her to do that. She needs to come up with the $ to replace it. Not cool at all.
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yep she needs to replace it that sucks
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I am sorry, I would be hella pissed! Was she with you when you realized some of the things were missing? I think I would have brought that up right away. Like you said, there is no excuse for that, it is blatant disrespect. I would bring it up with her and either flat out ask her to replace it or ask her to help you purchase another one.
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Ugh, that's just plain sucky. My sister is like that, too. Her son is only a few months younger than mine, so we made a deal that I would pass stuff on to her as e grew out of it and she would pass it back when her little man grew out of it (she knew we were TTC again, an I have a friend who's been Tc via IVF for years now). Well, at first it worked out well (even though most of the stuff came back incredibly stained), but that didn't last very long. All along I've been giving her bags and bags of stuff, she hsnt returned a fraction of it. At one point I lent her (and it was established that this as just a loan) about 10 pocket dipes that weren't working for DS as she expressed interest in trying them. When I got pregnant again, I asked for those back (the only thing I've asked for back in over a year probably) and she doesn't have them. She thinks her hubby donated them but he won't admit it. She appologized, bubut didn't offer to replace them, even when I mentiond how expensive they were. She just kind of blew it off. I probably should have been more direct, but at the time I was hoping she would just offer to d the right thing. They don't have a lot of money, so I didn't want to be a total Scrooge by demanding reimbursement, but it's more the principle than anything - just a complete lack of respect. I've been thoughtful enough to pass along every stitch of clothes we've outgrown to them and they can't even return the favor. Some people.

I'm sorry. I hope you have a good vacation and it gets resolved peacefully when you get back.
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