your thoughts? kinda long..sorry

[lilac0226]

I agree with everyone else. You may try to notice more to make sure there aren't any negligent type issues like pill bottles, but sounds like your friends issues might have been isolated, say just she wasn't as organized having a day with extra kids there.

[Swimmingly]

Her 3 yo said they didn't nap. My 3.5 yo will tell me ALL kinds of things about her day that didn't actually happen. And she cannot remember for 1 hour whether or not she was given a vitamin with her breakfast that day. I wouldn't trust her "report" of whether or not she napped at daycare.

If YOU are happy with the provider, STAY!!! It sounds like a good fit for you, and that is SO hard to find.

[momtojande]

Originally Posted by Swimmingly Her 3 yo said they didn't nap. My 3.5 yo will tell me ALL kinds of things about her day that didn't actually happen. And she cannot remember for 1 hour whether or not she was given a vitamin with her breakfast that day. I wouldn't trust her "report" of whether or not she napped at daycare.

Yeah. My 4 y/o is a terrible source of information about whether she napped.

[sourpatch_babe]

Originally Posted by momtojande Yeah. My 4 y/o is a terrible source of information about whether she napped.

Kids, can't trust 'em as far as you can throw 'em

[Kissed by the Moon]

yea, she just said it was her daughter's worst daycare day ever. Of couse it would be since she's going to a brand new place..anyway, I decided to leave him there since he's happy. The only thing I'd change is that it will take her a while to contact me about something (I think she feels she doesn't want to bug me), so I told her to call me if need be. Thanks for the reassuring words!

[momtojande]

Sorry OP, quick hijack:

Originally Posted by sourpatch_babe Kids, can't trust 'em as far as you can throw 'em

The same 4 y/o will also tell the story, which she seems to remember very well, of the time she rode on Daddy's motorcycle with him. She will tell you that she sat on his lap, and he let her hold the handlebars, and they rode around the neighborhood. This did not happen! One time, he let her sit on it with him in the driveway -- the rest is a created memory.

(This also drives her big brother crazy -- "why did she get to ride the motorcycle?")