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Old 09-06-2012, 05:30 PM   #1
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Help me, I need a CM and gender swaying guru...*TMI*

Okay so I have two boys. We just started ttc #3. I would like a girl but I think that despite the whole science behind gender swaying the fact is we really don't have any control over the babies gender. I had mostly come to terms with this and moved on..... but......

I need to decide. I don't chart temps because I work overnights and it would be inconsistent at best. I didn't think to use opks. I was however checking me CM and position. Since monday my cervix has been high it was way open Tuesday and Wednesday, its still pretty open today but not quite as much. Today I got EWCM. My fertility friend thinks i should ovulate sometime around yesterday. Last time we DTD was yesterday morning.

So the whole timing for a girl argument basically says that x spermies live longer and that you shouldn't DTD on the day of ovulation because it will increase your likelihood of a boy. So am I being stupid to avoid sex for the next two days? Does EWCM mean you ovulated or that you are going to? Am I severely decreasing my chances of getting pregnant if we don't DTD tonight?? I really would be more than happy to have another boy but I really do what a girl eventually and I really wish I had never read about gender swaying.....

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Old 09-06-2012, 05:44 PM   #2
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If you got EWCM today, than you should be ovulating any time soon (tomorrow-ish if you're anything like me). My understanding is that it appears before ovulation, not after. It's meant to facilitate the movement of sperm as it has channels in it that they use as super-highways. LOL If it were me, I'd leave things with yesterday morning as that's your greatest chance for a girl. Healthy sperm live 3 to 5 days in the female reproductive tract, so I wouldn't worry so much about them not being viable when Mrs. Egg makes her appearance. All this being said, I have a short cycle (25 or 26 days) my timing might be faster than your's.
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Old 09-06-2012, 05:50 PM   #3
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Re: Help me, I need a CM and gender swaying guru...*TMI*

My cycle is usually 26 days.... I feel like I'm over thinking this whole TTc business...
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You could go for an o+12 attempt
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Whats o +12?
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Whats o +12?
DTD 12 hours after O.
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DTD 12 hours after O.
This. Sorry, I Didn't go into detail. This is a method that a woman who kept having shettles opposites developed that got her a girl. I was a member of a few gender swaying forums when trying to sway girl for our 3rd. A lot of people found this method successful.
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Yeah, I have no idea when I'm gonna O or if I already did! LOL Let alone down to the hour!
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Haha we are in the same boat but opposite. I have two girls and we would love for #3 to be a boy!!
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Old 09-06-2012, 08:41 PM   #10
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!!!Boys swaying seems so easy; DTD when you O and make sure you have an O when you're DoingTD!! I'm over here trying to think about little bunny rabbits to distract me so I don't give in to the talents of DH! LOL! I really don't want this to take so long I end up with another October November December baby the holidays are stressful enough!
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