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Old 09-12-2011, 07:12 PM   #1
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Every now and then I throw myself a pity party

My husband left over 4 years ago. I've been single long enough that usually it doesn't phase me but sometimes I really hate that my future will be alone. I have a boyfriend but it will never be a committed relationship. I have to live where my ex is so we can share custody. I'm not horrible looking but I am in my 30s with a special needs son. The only guys interested in me are ones that I would not have around my boys. I realize there is a small chance I will meet someone but I'm way past hoping for it. Now that I'm done whining I will remember all that I have to be grateful for...

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Old 09-12-2011, 08:30 PM   #2
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And you never know what will happen...you just have to ride it out.
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Old 09-14-2011, 11:08 AM   #3
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Everyone has and deserves a pity party from time to time! Mine normally involve cookie dough I agree, you never know what may happen. Don't give up hope! 30s is still young!
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Old 09-14-2011, 02:47 PM   #5
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Hugs to you! I have my own lil pitty party once in a while too.
I just look at my daughter and remind myself how lucky I am. I'd rather be single then be in an abusive relationship. I thank God that I had the courage to walkout when I did.
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I had a very very similar pity party this past week. 30, single, 3 kids, husband left 4 years ago, not dating, staring down the barrel of a long empty life, crazy cat lady????
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Old 09-15-2011, 10:13 AM   #7
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I had a very very similar pity party this past week. 30, single, 3 kids, husband left 4 years ago, not dating, staring down the barrel of a long empty life, crazy cat lady????

I only have 1 cat so far! I think what really sucks is I loved my married life, I was pretty dang happy, right until he said he wasn't.
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Old 09-15-2011, 11:19 AM   #8
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Ive got 3 cats! Guess that makes me a crazy cat lady too! LOL
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((HUGS)) Hang in there. I haven't been single as long as you but you are still very young (i'm just 32 and think i'm pretty young still).
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Never know what will happen when you least expect it! I doubt you'll be alone in the future
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