So, what if I am TTA but hubby has other plans?

[Nightowl Jan]

Originally Posted by TofuScramble Sorry you are in a tough situation, but have you considered tube tying? Essure? Adiana? But how would he feel if you did something permanent? It sounds like he does want another? Maybe tell him you guys can adopt down the road when things are more financially comfortable? And you can just stick w/ condoms- they ARE pretty effective when used properly- just make sure he wears one! lol Obvious statements I know lol.

Yeah...i need to talk to him about condoms. Make sure it is going to happen. And yes, I don't feel comfortable doing anything permanent either because I want to respect his wishes. Maybe someday I'll come around but yeah for now we can't afford it. I would not adopt because I liked being pregnant and seeing the miracle of our genes create a human. I just feel like I loved those times but I am done now. It is all just weird. He will say we are done but then casually in the car or something say he wants to keep his options open...

I understand how he feels. He has all girls. Most guys want a son. Oh well. Maybe I'll just throw in the towel and se la vie!

[TofuScramble]

I think my husband wants more too. He's totally fine with us being done.. but I think that if I were to get preggo- he'd be happy about it.
Actually he said last night that he had a dream I was pregnant- he had found out but I didn't know LOL, he was scared to tell me cause he knew I'd be upset, but he was excited. Silly man Usually I'm the one who has preggo dreams.