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Old 12-11-2011, 10:26 PM   #1
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Anyone else "depriving" DH?

I found out I am pregnant almost a month ago and I have been a little standoffish in the bedroom if you catch my drift. The first time we DTD after I found out, I spotted a bit the next day and it freaked me out, even though I know it's normal. We have done it once since then and no spotting. 2x in a month is NOT our norm I know realistically it cannot hurt the baby or anything, but I am so danged tired...

I just feel bad

Oh, and it's not that I don't want to... it's that I want to when he isn't here... like now.

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Old 12-11-2011, 10:52 PM   #2
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Lol I feel ya. Im really trying but I'm so nauseated all the time and Soooo tired. If he wants some he knows we at least need to go to bed at about 1030
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Old 12-11-2011, 11:42 PM   #3
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Re: Anyone else "depriving" DH?

ooh yeah. poor guy. its been way too long hes been good about it...and i 'want' to in my head, but on top of feeling a little yuck, super tired and just ready to relax whenever there is a spare moment..."that" isn't the first thing that pops in my head. but of course its the first thing that pops in his!!

and it doesn't help that my tummy is growing and I just feel more fat, even though i've lost a few pounds. i just feel inside and out....
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Old 12-12-2011, 10:11 AM   #4
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Re: Anyone else "depriving" DH?

Same here, just don't feel good enough to actually do anything! Ive sucked it up a few times just for him but we def don't do it nearly as much as we were. He understands though.
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Old 12-12-2011, 04:44 PM   #5
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Re: Anyone else "depriving" DH?

I gave my husband what he wanted today. He says he feels better.
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Old 12-12-2011, 05:43 PM   #6
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Re: Anyone else "depriving" DH?

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I gave my husband what he wanted today. He says he feels better.
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Maybe if we all do the recommended kegels exercises it will stir us up a little more for our husbands
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Old 12-13-2011, 01:23 PM   #7
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I actually have a different problem. I want it more now than before. He doesn't mind, that's not the problem. BUT: TMI! I get really dry within just a few minutes, just as it really starts to get good. It isn't that I am not excited, because I am loving it. I have never had this problem before. It kinda ruins the moment, or cuts it short. Embarrassing.
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Old 12-13-2011, 03:47 PM   #8
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Re: Anyone else "depriving" DH?

I feel good (except tired), so we haven't had to slack in frequency. ;-) But dryness--yeah! We might have to go back to using lube every time, which neither of us likes. I guess nursing + pregnancy = super dryness.
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Old 12-14-2011, 01:57 PM   #9
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Re: Anyone else "depriving" DH?

We have a tendency to have sex and I start hemmoraging during sex and have a miscarriage within an hour or so. Has happened exactly like that with 3 out of my 4 miscarriages. I have really high risk pregnancies anyway (8th preg, several stillbirths,lots of miscarriages,preeclampsia and hellp with all pregnancies) so we were just told again by the dr this morning we should prolly just abstain so that's what we are doing. My poor hubby!
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