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Old 12-25-2011, 11:10 PM   #11
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Welcome back mama! I was pregnant by my now DH before my divorce from my ex-h was finalized and our LO was born about 2 months after my divorce was finalized. It was a weird situation to be in so I understand what you are talking about. However, I didn't let myself worry about what other people thought and went on with life as usual and that seemed to work pretty well. We got married when our LO was 2 months old and just had another baby together and are now 1 big happy family along with my older 3 kiddos. Nobody treats us any differently or anything.


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Old 12-26-2011, 02:19 AM   #12
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Don't feel bad, and I hope your new boyfriend is a good guy and stepping up and helping out. Congrats, at least you weren't an idiot like me, and got pregnant by your DH right before you were planning on leaving him. I had made plans to move out in October and was ready to move on from what has been a marriage that dragged on to long for the sake of kids, only to find out I was pregnant in September. I seriously had to eat my words, yeah I went from, yup we're finally seperating to I'm pregnant. I wish it was my boyfriend's baby (not that I had one) in this moment that would have been less embarrassing. Good luck and I'm guessing you had good reason for moving on, a baby is always a blessing, even if the circumstances aren't what you would have planned. Don't worry about what everybody thinks, the majority of them probably have skeletons in their closets that they won't admit to, just I doubt as many people as you think really have room to judge. Just focus on being a good mama.
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Old 12-26-2011, 10:47 AM   #13
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Mama congratulations! I wish you a wonderful pregnancy, full of joy.
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Old 12-27-2011, 10:45 PM   #14
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Congrats!! I remember you from american baby, when we were preggo with our first, how crazy is that?!?

This baby is a blessing!! Keep your chin up.
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Old 12-27-2011, 11:30 PM   #15
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Baby's bring newness of life. I pray this one will bring you joy in your sorrow and remind you that there are new beginnings, fresh and beautiful.
Bekah praying wife (9.2005) to my perfect mate big D , mama to Brandon boy (7.2008) Ben (2.2010) and Kendra (11.2012)
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Old 12-28-2011, 06:32 AM   #16
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Eh I wouldn't worry about it. You are an adult and taking care of yourself. They can have all the opinions they want but it's really nobody's business but your and the baby's father. Congrats and good luck.
Wife to my soulmate since 7/12/03 mom to dd 2/9/09 and ds 1/5/12 and angel baby 10/07. Infertility survivor!
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Old 12-28-2011, 08:34 AM   #17
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Mama, babies are blessings, no matter what!! Congrats!
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Old 12-28-2011, 12:11 PM   #18
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Congrats! How's the baby's father taking the news?
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that will take your life and light it up or destroy it.
Then, you become a mother."

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Old 12-28-2011, 02:19 PM   #19
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congrats mama hoping you have a smooth 9 months
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Old 12-29-2011, 06:19 PM   #20
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First of all, my heart goes out to you.

Secondly, CONGRATS!! I hope you have a wonderful, easy pregnancy & fast labor.

And I remember you by your avi!
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