Diaper Swappers

AcrossTheUniverse · 12-25-2011, 11:10 PM

Welcome back mama! I was pregnant by my now DH before my divorce from my ex-h was finalized and our LO was born about 2 months after my divorce was finalized. It was a weird situation to be in so I understand what you are talking about. However, I didn't let myself worry about what other people thought and went on with life as usual and that seemed to work pretty well. We got married when our LO was 2 months old and just had another baby together and are now 1 big happy family along with my older 3 kiddos. Nobody treats us any differently or anything.

lilac0226 · 12-26-2011, 02:19 AM

Don't feel bad, and I hope your new boyfriend is a good guy and stepping up and helping out. Congrats, at least you weren't an idiot like me, and got pregnant by your DH right before you were planning on leaving him. I had made plans to move out in October and was ready to move on from what has been a marriage that dragged on to long for the sake of kids, only to find out I was pregnant in September. I seriously had to eat my words, yeah I went from, yup we're finally seperating to I'm pregnant. I wish it was my boyfriend's baby (not that I had one) in this moment that would have been less embarrassing. Good luck and I'm guessing you had good reason for moving on, a baby is always a blessing, even if the circumstances aren't what you would have planned. Don't worry about what everybody thinks, the majority of them probably have skeletons in their closets that they won't admit to, just I doubt as many people as you think really have room to judge. Just focus on being a good mama.

Mamatoabunch · 12-26-2011, 10:47 AM

Mama congratulations! I wish you a wonderful pregnancy, full of joy.

Mommy2JJ · 12-27-2011, 10:45 PM

Congrats!! I remember you from american baby, when we were preggo with our first, how crazy is that?!?

This baby is a blessing!! Keep your chin up.

beattymama · 12-27-2011, 11:30 PM

Baby's bring newness of life. I pray this one will bring you joy in your sorrow and remind you that there are new beginnings, fresh and beautiful.

LaughingPeaMama · 12-28-2011, 06:32 AM

Eh I wouldn't worry about it. You are an adult and taking care of yourself. They can have all the opinions they want but it's really nobody's business but your and the baby's father. Congrats and good luck.

skolbut · 12-28-2011, 08:34 AM

Mama, babies are blessings, no matter what!! Congrats!

Only · 12-28-2011, 12:11 PM

Congrats! How's the baby's father taking the news?

momof3boys1girl · 12-28-2011, 02:19 PM

congrats mama hoping you have a smooth 9 months

Almacham · 12-29-2011, 06:19 PM

First of all, my heart goes out to you.

Secondly, CONGRATS!!

I hope you have a wonderful, easy pregnancy & fast labor.

And I remember you by your avi!

12-25-2011, 11:10 PM	#11
AcrossTheUniverse Registered Users Formerly: ReiSapphireJade Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Arizona! Posts: 5,000 Ratings: 176 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Single and pregnant with #4 Welcome back mama! I was pregnant by my now DH before my divorce from my ex-h was finalized and our LO was born about 2 months after my divorce was finalized. It was a weird situation to be in so I understand what you are talking about. However, I didn't let myself worry about what other people thought and went on with life as usual and that seemed to work pretty well. We got married when our LO was 2 months old and just had another baby together and are now 1 big happy family along with my older 3 kiddos. Nobody treats us any differently or anything. __________________ Heather, wife to James & mommy to: Jaden (8.06), Mara (8.07), Fenn (5.09), Elias (7.10), & Levi (11.11) 80lbs lost! i Loved and Lost (6/12), (9/12), & (2/13) i

12-26-2011, 02:19 AM	#12
lilac0226 Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 632 Ratings: 6 Feedback: 100%	Re: Single and pregnant with #4 Don't feel bad, and I hope your new boyfriend is a good guy and stepping up and helping out. Congrats, at least you weren't an idiot like me, and got pregnant by your DH right before you were planning on leaving him. I had made plans to move out in October and was ready to move on from what has been a marriage that dragged on to long for the sake of kids, only to find out I was pregnant in September. I seriously had to eat my words, yeah I went from, yup we're finally seperating to I'm pregnant. I wish it was my boyfriend's baby (not that I had one) in this moment that would have been less embarrassing. Good luck and I'm guessing you had good reason for moving on, a baby is always a blessing, even if the circumstances aren't what you would have planned. Don't worry about what everybody thinks, the majority of them probably have skeletons in their closets that they won't admit to, just I doubt as many people as you think really have room to judge. Just focus on being a good mama. __________________ http://www.groupon.com/r/uu16101319

12-26-2011, 10:47 AM	#13
Mamatoabunch Registered Users Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,464 Ratings: 18 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Single and pregnant with #4 Mama congratulations! I wish you a wonderful pregnancy, full of joy. __________________ Annabelle Mom to Makaley 19, Arden 19, Anniston 17, Taegan 14, Balen 12, Kellen 10, Ellery 8, Innish 6, Eiley 4, Finnian 3, and Esca 1, my 9th HBAC, 8th UC and sweet pea expected 1/14.

12-27-2011, 10:45 PM	#14
Mommy2JJ Registered Users Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Nebraska Posts: 13,117 Ratings: 461 Feedback: 100%	Re: Single and pregnant with #4 Congrats!! I remember you from american baby, when we were preggo with our first, how crazy is that?!? This baby is a blessing!! Keep your chin up. __________________ Meagan Love being a SAH Homeschooling Mama to Jackson, Kingston, Reagan, and Addyson

12-27-2011, 11:30 PM	#15
beattymama Registered Users Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: california Posts: 576 Ratings: 31 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Single and pregnant with #4 Baby's bring newness of life. I pray this one will bring you joy in your sorrow and remind you that there are new beginnings, fresh and beautiful. __________________ Bekah praying wife (9.05) to my perfect mate big D , mama to Brandon boy (7.08) Ben (2.10) and Kendra (11/15/2012)

12-28-2011, 06:32 AM	#16
LaughingPeaMama Registered Users Formerly: RedShoes Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,411 Ratings: 97 Feedback: 100%	Re: Single and pregnant with #4 Eh I wouldn't worry about it. You are an adult and taking care of yourself. They can have all the opinions they want but it's really nobody's business but your and the baby's father. Congrats and good luck. __________________ Wife to my soulmate since 7/12/03 mom to dd 2/9/09 and ds 1/5/12 and angel baby 10/07. Infertility survivor!ISO(willing to trade my FSOT items for) boyish BG pockets EUC only BG freetime, swaddlebees simplex2.0 os boy m/L wetbags and pail liners FSOT NOTE: ALL ITEMS COME FROM A SMOKE FREE DOG FRIENDLY HOME. EVERYTHING IS LINT BRUSHED BUT STRAY HAIRS WILL BE FOUND. IF THIS BOTHERS YOU DON'T FSOT WITH ME PLEASE

12-28-2011, 08:34 AM	#17
skolbut Registered Users Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Lansing, MI Posts: 3,378 Ratings: 52 Feedback: 100%	Re: Single and pregnant with #4 Mama, babies are blessings, no matter what!! Congrats! __________________ B... newly type II diabetic, wife to B 9/16/05, mama to B 1/23/07 H 9/27/08 (after three years of GI issues FINALLY getting a celiac diagnosis!) and our miracle baby C who joined us 9/6/2011, and is forever greatful to his "milk mamas" who pump for us! We do lots of crunchy things and some soggy things, too.

12-28-2011, 02:19 PM	#19
momof3boys1girl Super Moderator Formerly: mOmof3 Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: North Texas Posts: 21,492 Ratings: 793 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Single and pregnant with #4 congrats mama hoping you have a smooth 9 months __________________ SAHM to DD(7/05) DS1(12/06)DS2 (4/09)CLW at 28months and Newbie S 1-13-12...BFF to my DH since 10/03 12 week loss of twins "04" I sell scentsy Nothing tastes better then skinny. 80lbs gone 19 to go ISO:OBGE