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Old 12-21-2011, 04:14 PM   #1
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getting "back on the horse" again

how has this been for you?? is your DH/DP going crazy from lack of intimacy? or are you feeling back to normal already?

this is my first vaginal delivery, and DTD is defiantly harder this time post-partum. i'm not back to my old self at ALL down there, and i almost find it a bit traumatizing when DTD. i'm reminded the birthing and loooooooong recovery. so getting "back on the horse" has been slow and uncomfortable.

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4th C/S here so can't speak to a VBAC but everythings finally back to normal here - but only recently ...it'll come back, just be patient with yourself - and practice maybe?
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I finalllllyyy got to enjoy it the other night what reallly helps is lots of foreplay I still dont feel 100% comfortable but oohh it was great the other night and I actually got to finish now this is really soon for me b/c with ds#2 It took me almost a whole year. Lube helps too<3 Be patient it will come
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Getting there finally. Still some discomfort. A bit of loss of sensation due twosome nerves that have to repair I guess. But the last time we dtd I enjoyed it like I used to. It is a relief for me. I was so nervous that I would never enjoy it again.
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Old 12-26-2011, 06:25 PM   #5
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It took me a whole year with DS #1. 7 years later and 2 more babies, I will say it is even better now than it was b4 kids, despite all the weird stuff that has happened down there- LOL!!!
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Re: getting "back on the horse" again

Back to DTD here and feeling okay, just having trouble finding the time! DD is a night owl and DH is up for work at 5am so it's been really hard to find any couple time and when we do I'm usually exhausted.
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