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Old 01-23-2012, 03:26 PM   #101
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With our second match, there was a long delay between mom looking at books, mom picking us, mom wanting to meet us. She definately had her reasons, but it was sooooo hard on us.

That makes me feel better, I'd just think she would want to hurry since baby is due next month. But she has had two failed matches (adoptive families backed out because of disability) so maybe she's taking her time.
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Thinking of you, Amy! I'm sure that is why she's taking so long. There's no bigger insult than your baby being rejected. It's happened to a baby my mom fostered and has happened to babies her friends have fostered also. The bmoms did not take it well, understandably!!!
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With our second match, there was a long delay between mom looking at books, mom picking us, mom wanting to meet us. She definately had her reasons, but it was sooooo hard on us.

We kind has this too with our son's birthparents. It was basically once a week contact. I thought it was strange but hey, we have our son. If it is meant to be, it will happen and if not, your child will find you when he/she is ready. Hang in there.
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That makes me feel better, I'd just think she would want to hurry since baby is due next month. But she has had two failed matches (adoptive families backed out because of disability) so maybe she's taking her time.
oh that must have been heartbreaking for her! i can understand why she is taking her time.
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Well she chose another couple, we're disappointed, but doing ok. Just really gald not to have the anticipation of the wait anymore.
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I'm sorry, Amy. You, your family, the mom and her baby are in all in our prayers. Take care.
^^^that. sorry mama.
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I'm sorry, Amy.
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