Would you relocate for your spouse?

[kattayanna_mom]

Well my DH has been in the Marines for almost 22 yrs we've been together 18 so yes i'd relocate and follow him anywhere I could go to be/live with him.

[graceworks]

definitely relocate

[napua]

Originally Posted by mgmsrk Honey, you have been married for about 45 seconds and your brain is still not matured yet. You just can't even suggest something like that, live a little life first. When my DH and I started dating you were likely still wearing nighttime diapers.

Am I missing something? That seems like an incredibly rude thing to say to someone. Some people truly do look at marriage as something that can't be ended other than by death. Not everyone has to agree but I don't see why you'd feel the need to talk to her as though she's some silly child.

[Kirsie]

I have several times. DH is military and that's part of our life. IMO, marriage is a series of compromises- some times we make 'em and sometimes we receive 'em.

Originally Posted by mgmsrk Honey, you have been married for about 45 seconds and your brain is still not matured yet. You just can't even suggest something like that, live a little life first. When my DH and I started dating you were likely still wearing nighttime diapers.

Who are you to "talk" to her like that? I can't imagine talking to a teenager I know like that let alone a grown woman I don't.

[katesmash]

Originally Posted by napua Am I missing something? That seems like an incredibly rude thing to say to someone. Some people truly do look at marriage as something that can't be ended other than by death. Not everyone has to agree but I don't see why you'd feel the need to talk to her as though she's some silly child.

I was just going to post something similar. The tone of that post was absolutely uncalled for.

[cobbermama]

Originally Posted by katesmash I was just going to post something similar. The tone of that post was absolutely uncalled for.

Seriously!

[napua]

Considering the way she has spoken to people in some of the other threads, none of us should be shocked by her disgustingly rude comments.

[megamomx7]

relocate!!!

[Nickel+3]

Originally Posted by mgmsrk Honey, you have been married for about 45 seconds and your brain is still not matured yet. You just can't even suggest something like that, live a little life first. When my DH and I started dating you were likely still wearing nighttime diapers.

I missed the part where you know me.... I'm madly in love with my husband and will be until the day I die. Thank god I'm married young. Just means I get to spend more time with the love of my life.

[Mama*Kim]

Most likely yes in both situations. Of course there's always a lot more details to figure out in these situations, but I wouldn't rule it out. For example, if in situation A, the "dream job" had low pay in a high COL area and the area wasn't appealing to either of us (outside of his job), we probably wouldn't go. For situation B, if one of the kids was a senior, I'd have a harder time moving, or if one of the kids was extremely involved with a particular sport, I'd also have to reconsider.