Tubal sadness - Cloth Diapers & Parenting Community

daisy7843 · 06-08-2012, 12:51 PM

Had one done yesterday and having a hard time coming to grips with it. How long should I wait till I call my doctor? I started crying Sunday and have cried pretty much every day since

they knocked me out right when I got to the ER as a was a weepy mess. In recovery my doctor urged me to call him if I wasn't feeling better soon.

firemommaof1 · 06-08-2012, 09:16 PM

I would call. ((hugs))

daisy7843 · 06-08-2012, 09:29 PM

Thanks, I'll have to wait till Monday. Hopefully I snap out of it. It was more of my last two pregnancies almost killed me then a we don't want more kids. I am very lucky to have my three and should be grateful but I am just very sad knowing we will never have another baby

Sweet_Fantasy_Fox · 06-08-2012, 09:33 PM

I'm sorry mama, I am debating on getting this done, at first I was against it, then I now feel I should have just done it when I had my baby 4 months ago, I am afraid of feeling like your describing but I am afraid of getting pg again. I guess whichever side you choose, neither are an easy decision to deal with. I hope you come to peace with your decision.

qsefthuko · 06-08-2012, 09:33 PM

mama. If you can't wait until Monday go to the er if things get really bad. They will get you the help you need. That is rough.

daisy7843 · 06-08-2012, 10:26 PM

Thanks ladies. Had a nice time snuggling and reading books to my littles this evening. Read a post from a mama who had an emergency hysterectomy who has the same I should be grateful for the kids I have but am still having a hard time coming to grips with this feelings. Makes me feel better to know I am not the only one feeling this way.

whitneywalters · 06-08-2012, 10:31 PM

hilaryisinked · 06-14-2012, 11:36 AM

I'm struggling with if I should get one. I'm terrified of getting pregnant again (health stuff) but also terrified of doing something permanent at 22. I hope that you can find peace soon

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daisy7843 · 06-16-2012, 10:43 PM

Thanks ladies for all the <3 Both my older children were in the hospital this week... I think it was God's way of showing me I made the right decision. I am feeling much better about my decision (even with the exhaustion)

firemommaof1 · 06-24-2012, 10:29 AM

glad your feeling better about your decision. ((hugs)) so sorry about your kids in the hospital

06-08-2012, 12:51 PM	#1
daisy7843 Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: CA Posts: 365 Ratings: 3 Feedback: 100%	Tubal sadness Had one done yesterday and having a hard time coming to grips with it. How long should I wait till I call my doctor? I started crying Sunday and have cried pretty much every day since they knocked me out right when I got to the ER as a was a weepy mess. In recovery my doctor urged me to call him if I wasn't feeling better soon. Advertisement

06-08-2012, 09:16 PM	#2
firemommaof1 Registered Users Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: By the Blue Lake Posts: 5,897 Ratings: 469 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Tubal sadness I would call. ((hugs)) __________________ * Sage * ~ Married to my handsome man who still makes my heart skip a beat after 12 years! Mama to My Warrior Son~ 8/19/03 and My Little Mermaid DD~ 5/14/07 Sweet Little Cally 5/23/11 Kai Grayson Arrived June 3 2014

06-08-2012, 09:33 PM	#4
Sweet_Fantasy_Fox No Longer Here Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: ~West Coast~ Posts: 61,841 Ratings: 614 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Tubal sadness I'm sorry mama, I am debating on getting this done, at first I was against it, then I now feel I should have just done it when I had my baby 4 months ago, I am afraid of feeling like your describing but I am afraid of getting pg again. I guess whichever side you choose, neither are an easy decision to deal with. I hope you come to peace with your decision.

06-08-2012, 09:33 PM	#5
qsefthuko Registered Users Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 18,019 Ratings: 93 Feedback: 100%	Re: Tubal sadness mama. If you can't wait until Monday go to the er if things get really bad. They will get you the help you need. That is rough.

06-08-2012, 10:31 PM	#7
whitneywalters Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 20,337 Ratings: 259 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Tubal sadness __________________ ~Whitney~ adoring wife to Chris, mama to five little minions, Alex, Destiny, Kairi, Amelia and Cassandra!

06-08-2012, 09:29 PM	#3
daisy7843 Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: CA Posts: 365 Ratings: 3 Feedback: 100%	Thanks, I'll have to wait till Monday. Hopefully I snap out of it. It was more of my last two pregnancies almost killed me then a we don't want more kids. I am very lucky to have my three and should be grateful but I am just very sad knowing we will never have another baby

06-08-2012, 10:26 PM	#6
daisy7843 Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: CA Posts: 365 Ratings: 3 Feedback: 100%	Thanks ladies. Had a nice time snuggling and reading books to my littles this evening. Read a post from a mama who had an emergency hysterectomy who has the same I should be grateful for the kids I have but am still having a hard time coming to grips with this feelings. Makes me feel better to know I am not the only one feeling this way.

06-14-2012, 11:36 AM	#8
hilaryisinked Spring Into a New Avi 2015 Winner Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Jacksonville, FL Posts: 26,328 Ratings: 68 Feedback: 100%	I'm struggling with if I should get one. I'm terrified of getting pregnant again (health stuff) but also terrified of doing something permanent at 22. I hope that you can find peace soon Sent from my iPhone using DS Forum __________________ Hilary, head over heels wifey of a Coastie Mama of Aubrey & Delaney

06-16-2012, 10:43 PM	#9
daisy7843 Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: CA Posts: 365 Ratings: 3 Feedback: 100%	Thanks ladies for all the <3 Both my older children were in the hospital this week... I think it was God's way of showing me I made the right decision. I am feeling much better about my decision (even with the exhaustion)

06-24-2012, 10:29 AM	#10
firemommaof1 Registered Users Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: By the Blue Lake Posts: 5,897 Ratings: 469 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Tubal sadness glad your feeling better about your decision. ((hugs)) so sorry about your kids in the hospital __________________ * Sage * ~ Married to my handsome man who still makes my heart skip a beat after 12 years! Mama to My Warrior Son~ 8/19/03 and My Little Mermaid DD~ 5/14/07 Sweet Little Cally 5/23/11 Kai Grayson Arrived June 3 2014

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