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Old 06-08-2012, 12:51 PM   #1
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Tubal sadness

Had one done yesterday and having a hard time coming to grips with it. How long should I wait till I call my doctor? I started crying Sunday and have cried pretty much every day since they knocked me out right when I got to the ER as a was a weepy mess. In recovery my doctor urged me to call him if I wasn't feeling better soon.

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Old 06-08-2012, 09:16 PM   #2
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I would call. ((hugs))
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Thanks, I'll have to wait till Monday. Hopefully I snap out of it. It was more of my last two pregnancies almost killed me then a we don't want more kids. I am very lucky to have my three and should be grateful but I am just very sad knowing we will never have another baby
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I'm sorry mama, I am debating on getting this done, at first I was against it, then I now feel I should have just done it when I had my baby 4 months ago, I am afraid of feeling like your describing but I am afraid of getting pg again. I guess whichever side you choose, neither are an easy decision to deal with. I hope you come to peace with your decision.
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mama. If you can't wait until Monday go to the er if things get really bad. They will get you the help you need. That is rough.
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Old 06-08-2012, 10:26 PM   #6
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Thanks ladies. Had a nice time snuggling and reading books to my littles this evening. Read a post from a mama who had an emergency hysterectomy who has the same I should be grateful for the kids I have but am still having a hard time coming to grips with this feelings. Makes me feel better to know I am not the only one feeling this way.
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I'm struggling with if I should get one. I'm terrified of getting pregnant again (health stuff) but also terrified of doing something permanent at 22. I hope that you can find peace soon

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Thanks ladies for all the <3 Both my older children were in the hospital this week... I think it was God's way of showing me I made the right decision. I am feeling much better about my decision (even with the exhaustion)
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glad your feeling better about your decision. ((hugs)) so sorry about your kids in the hospital
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