I keep wanting "just one more"...

[O&AsMomma]

I'm glad I have good company in that I have young babies (twins-9 weeks today, where did it go?!) and already feel like I want more. Even during delivery (after DD1 but before DD2 was born) I told my husband that we could do this again, haha. It's certainly not easy right now, but I know I am going to miss this so much. I could just cry thinking about it. I really hope another will be in store for us someday!

[moonlightblonde]

Originally Posted by jaelynsmommy61607 I don't think I'll ever get to a point I don't want anymore. But I know I don't want any more with SO. I have three now and being a single mom to 3 kids scares me! I know our relationship is done. This last one was a big surprise. We were all set to go our separate ways.

This! Though we only have 2. People keep asking if we are done having kids or dp keeps saying two & through type of things & I cringe because I am NOT done..just don't want any more with HIM. We're still working the logistics of being separate out.

....as an aside where are you ladies finding guys open to this many? I am in no hurry to start dating or anything but definitely jealous.

Our biggest issue is the only thing I have ever wanted to be is a mom (& foster eventually) & dp thinks I should have ambitions in a 'real' career & I just don't.

[momof3BBs]

We just had our third and "last" baby last June. I already feel like I want just one more. My husband had the chance to make it final but hasn't done it yet....secretly hoping for an oops!

[mamma mia]

Originally Posted by momof3BBs We just had our third and "last" baby last June. I already feel like I want just one more. My husband had the chance to make it final but hasn't done it yet....secretly hoping for an oops!

Same here! My dh said he was done after our third was born last July, but I recently talked him into "just one more".

He seems to have to get past the first year to really get attached to the kids (I mean he loves them all from day one, but he just needs them to get a little bigger to bond with them).

Maybe it's just the "happy wife, happy life" mentality!

[el's mama]

Originally Posted by moonlightblonde This! Though we only have 2. People keep asking if we are done having kids or dp keeps saying two & through type of things & I cringe because I am NOT done..just don't want any more with HIM. We're still working the logistics of being separate out. ....as an aside where are you ladies finding guys open to this many? I am in no hurry to start dating or anything but definitely jealous. Our biggest issue is the only thing I have ever wanted to be is a mom (& foster eventually) & dp thinks I should have ambitions in a 'real' career & I just don't.

DH and I met in HS. He chased me for a couple years before we started dating though. He is from a large family and had a SAHM so that's something he's always wanted his kids to have too.