View Poll Results: How often do you buy your child new toys?
Basically whenever they want 8 8.33%
Approx. once a week 17 17.71%
Approx. once a month 26 27.08%
Birthdays and major holidays (IE Christmas, etc) 39 40.63%
Rarely buy new toys, even for major holidays and celebrations 6 6.25%
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Old 07-12-2012, 06:51 AM   #21
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Re: How often do you buy your child gifts/toys, etc?

We buy them one bigger thing each for their birthdays, small family gifts at hanukkah (some years we have booknikah where the family gets a new book each night, etc.) Our budget for all of hanukkah is usually about $150 or less. During the rest of the year, they use money they earn -- though we may match them dollar for dollar for something they've worked hard to save for -- for toys. We do not buy a lot of books, but use our wonderful library with abandon. I do buy arts and crafts supplies every few months, but that falls under the heading of homeschooling for us.

We try very hard to limit our consumption as a family of five in a small house, we live on a teacher's salary, and we don't allow plastic/character toys, so there aren't many toys we would buy at Target or the grocery store.


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Old 07-12-2012, 09:14 AM   #22
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We are minimalists so we try to keep things simple but as a former teacher and part-time hser I am a sucker for really nice toys and learning materials. We only buy new things for birthdays and Christmas but I make stuff and get used books pretty regularly. I also restock art supplies as needed. I knew right from the start that I didn't want them to get in the habit of expecting stuff evey time we go anywhere so I never buy anything if they are around and when I present a new activity or material it's always a surprise.
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We do gifts for Easter, Birthdays and Christmas, and with rare exception that's it other than clothes when needed. Today I bought DD a bubble toy just because, but that's pretty rare.
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Old 07-12-2012, 02:27 PM   #24
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Well I only have one child & his birthday is the day before Christmas so he gets new toys frequently. Nothing big- maybe a new matchbox car or train or a new little people animal. Because he would ordinarily get all his gifts at one time of the year & he outgrows them before his birthday or holidays come back around.

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Old 07-12-2012, 02:50 PM   #25
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Re: How often do you buy your child gifts/toys, etc?

They get 1-3 things each for Christmas and Birthdays (from us anyway). Maybe 3 smaller things or 1 large gift. There is no pattern to the rest of the time. It's pretty rare that we go out and buy a new toy though. I may pick up a lego minifigure here and there or some matchbox cars, maybe once a month or every other month. I don't ever say no to books though and DH brings them both home a comic book once a month.
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Old 07-12-2012, 03:08 PM   #26
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Re: How often do you buy your child gifts/toys, etc?

I need a "whenever I feel like it" option too!

Sometimes I'll buy quite a bit. Sometimes I buy practically nothing. In the summer I buy them bubbles, sidewalk chalk, floaties, etc. We buy almost all of our books at a neighborhood thrift store. We go once a month or so and the books are priced from .15-.50 so I will buy as many books as I can find that are in good shape that they don't already have and I think they would enjoy. Sometimes that means 1-2 books, sometimes that means 20 books. My kids are book fiends and they love their extensive collection.

If I see a toy or book or art supply or whatever that I really think they will love, and it's fairly cheap (I love me some clearance) I'll often grab it.
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Old 07-12-2012, 04:13 PM   #27
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We make a big deal out of birthdays. But still we only buy them 2-3 presents. Christmas we only do one gift. The grandparents have a limit of 4-5, my mom has a every hard time with this, which includes 1-2 fun toys, something educational & something they can wear. The rest of the year they earn points to buy something they want from the dollar store. They are still small (5,4,2,&1) so they don't ever get anything too expensive. We also rotate toys, put some away for a few months then switch them out. It works for now.
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Old 08-05-2012, 06:54 PM   #28
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Almost everything I get for my daughter is used, so I never spend a lot of money on her. Sometimes we'll be at a garage sale or thrift store or something and if she's being good, I'll let her pick something out. It's always less than $3 and it's not all the time. Also, sometimes I'll get her something used and get home and see it's missing pieces or something, so I'll give it to her on a random day...usually when I need some time to get something done. We traditionally do gifts for birthday, X-Mas and Easter (small non-candy stuff).
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Old 08-05-2012, 07:06 PM   #29
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Re: How often do you buy your child gifts/toys, etc?

Once a month, maybe. I swap for things for them and buy them coloring books or small fun things every once in a while. Not often at all. Mostly it's just birthdays and Christmas. We don't do gifts at Easter or anything like that, candy yes but no gifts.
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Old 08-05-2012, 07:10 PM   #30
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Me personally, holidays and if they "need" something like nerf guns. We just moved and all the neighborhood kids have them so they couldn't play with them. I spent $14 on 2 guns which would have cost $50. They won't get another thing til Halloween when they turn their candy in to the "Great Pumpkin" for a small toy. They are Diabetic so they don't need the candy.

My mother is another story entirely. She buys them something weekly.

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