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Old 07-26-2012, 04:25 PM   #11
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Re: How do people live through this? Loss, pregnancy mentioned

oh mama, I can't even imagine your pain. So sorry you lost your precious baby.

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Old 07-26-2012, 06:05 PM   #12
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Oh mama! 2000000 million for you. I am
In the hospital right now after delivering my little 14 week old angel baby boy this afternoon. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do but I got through it. It's still fresh with me so I have no clue how I'm suppose to cope in the long run. I'm just taking it hour by hour. Get yourself a good support team. Learn everything you can about your situation from your doc and join a support group in your area. I'm so sorry mama. I wish you didn't have to go trough this.
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Old 07-26-2012, 06:10 PM   #13
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I am so, so sorry. It's just so unfair - no two ways about it. I know a little bit of your pain and it's just unspeakably awful. My loss was earlier than yours, at 11 weeks, and it still haunts me every single day of my life - and it was over a year ago. You don't really get over it, ever. You just learn to cope, somehow, and it sure doesn't happen overnight.

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Old 07-26-2012, 06:17 PM   #14
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I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family can bind through this. I pray for healing for you all. I lost one last year on my oldest's birthday, anyway I still think about it all the time. I was still really early so I MC, but I could tell it was a baby. It was the hardest thing and because I only told my DH I mourned in silence.

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Old 07-26-2012, 06:23 PM   #15
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Oh no I'm so so sorry
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Old 07-26-2012, 07:07 PM   #17
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Old 07-26-2012, 08:06 PM   #18
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have a friend that has a beautiful box that was put together at the hospital of the little things she got when she delivered her first child stillborn. It is her "dark light" so to speak. It is nice that she has that beautiful box of memories but it is so sad to see it. This helps her. She realized this year (Chad would have been 10) that she has found great comfort in this hand made box from a wonderful stranger and she has now made some beautiful boxes for other mamas with the hope that one day they to will find comfort in them. Everyone copes differently. You don't get over loss you just cope. Some days will be better than others and some will downright be awful. Please know that you have tons of DS mamas praying for you and your family as you grieve for your son.
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These mamas have given solid advice, so all I can offer in addition are my condolences, hugs and prayers.

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I am so sorry Psylion! What horrible news! I will pray that baby B is ok and that you some how get through this.

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