Were you on the same page?

[simplyleah87]

My husband wants to TTA and I want to TTC
He's only been home from deployment one month. So maybe that's why, but I was hoping he'd be ready for another baby when he got back our son is 15 months old. So I think the timing would be perfect

Anyone else have a different opinion than their spouse??

[Lexy]

Me. But my hubs isn't preventing either but my fertility just came back also and our babe is 17mo. He still says he doesn't want one while I'm desperately wanting one and DTD a lit to try and make it happen. It's confusing

[stevensmom]

yep...and it's killing me

[bumminbeachbabe]

DH and I were not in agreement, but he kept it from me. I thought we both were trying for a baby and he just liked the perks of trying.

It took a heart breaking miscarriage earlier this year for him to finally understand how important a large family is to me. It almost split us up before marriage counseling helped us work through it.

[waterisntsomething]

kind of...We are TTA but if SO said he'd like to NTNP I'd be all for it. We actually talked about it today and he was like "don't you think we should have our finances somewhat sorted out before we have another?" I agreed begrudgingly. He doesn't know how hard it is to be responsible when all your hormones are saying get pregnant!!

[simplyleah87]

Yeah it's crazy, it's like your body tells you "it's time for a baby!!" And you get obsessed with it! I wanted to wait until emery was 3 to TTC. But something changed I guess, maybe watching him play with other kids made me realize a sibling would be good for him.

[blesdfish]

Hubby says he is done, I'm not sure, I would love a few more. We've agreed to wait until iris is at least 2 and discuss things then. I've always gotten pregnant soon after my babies turn one so waiting until she's 2 seems weird. I guess we'll see.

[Kirsie]

My DH would prefer to NTNP while I'm pretty adamant that we TTA. I'm not sure we'll ever get on the same page on this topic.

[pine_apple_goat]

Dh and I haven't been on the same page for a while. But I think we may have finally come to an agreement.