Reluctantly TTA....

[eliz7]

So we had a bit of an oops on Wednesday which was the first day of ewcm. So I'm crossing my fingers. Pretty sure I o'd yesterday so I guess now I wait. I swear dh is reluctantly avoiding even though he won't admit it

[eliz7]

I have officially lost my mind I am dying to test but I'm only 7 dpo. I have one test and am going to try and wait until Tuesday. I want to think that maybe one oops 2 days before o is good enough, but I kind of doubt I am pregnant. I wish dh would agree to ttc so it really could happen instead of having one oops and knowing it probably won't happen
Blah. . . Vent over.

[waterisntsomething]

Yep. I recently quit taking the mini pill for a while and SO doesn't like condoms so we've been doing pull out. I don't have PP AF yet so I'm not suepr hopeful but crazier thing have happened. Financially it really wouldn't be great to have another right now but I know we would make it work.

[Pikemommy]

Originally Posted by eliz7 I have officially lost my mind I am dying to test but I'm only 7 dpo. I have one test and am going to try and wait until Tuesday. I want to think that maybe one oops 2 days before o is good enough, but I kind of doubt I am pregnant. I wish dh would agree to ttc so it really could happen instead of having one oops and knowing it probably won't happen Blah. . . Vent over.

I totally understand! The one oops thing is torture! My youngest was a one time oops so I have even more hope that lightning will strike twice! lol KUP and I really like squinting at tests when you do peen on one

[Pikemommy]

Originally Posted by waterisntsomething Yep. I recently quit taking the mini pill for a while and SO doesn't like condoms so we've been doing pull out. I don't have PP AF yet so I'm not suepr hopeful but crazier thing have happened. Financially it really wouldn't be great to have another right now but I know we would make it work.

My DH is pulling the finances card too and it's ridiculous. There's no reason we can't afford another, except then DH can't buy more toys!
AND he actually said to me last night that if we have another it will be longer before I can go back to work and he wants a boat!

[eliz7]

My dh says he would want more but 5 kids will be too much $$ seriously cuz 4 is cheap I do have 2 wd babies, one with xdh and one with dh. So I'm hoping for another. Dh even says he wouldn't freak out if it happened but he won't try because he is too responsible. News flash, responsible doesn't = half way pulling out 2 days before I ovulate.

[waterisntsomething]

We are in fairly dire straights financially so I can't exactly disagree with him (but I can tell myself that 9 months is plenty of time to get things straightened out ) Plus, DS is only 8 months so we have all his baby stuff! Babies aren't that expensive its when they get older and we don't plan to be poor forever. I just look at it like a child is a lifetime thing...in 20 years we'll be so glad we didn't worry about the little money details.

[waterisntsomething]

Originally Posted by eliz7 My dh says he would want more but 5 kids will be too much $$ seriously cuz 4 is cheap I do have 2 wd babies, one with xdh and one with dh. So I'm hoping for another. Dh even says he wouldn't freak out if it happened but he won't try because he is too responsible. News flash, responsible doesn't = half way pulling out 2 days before I ovulate.

Haha, so true! We had a preg scare that prompted "the talk" a week or so ago and he was very adamant that we should wait b/c it's the responsible thing. Then the other night he did the whole half hearted pull out thing (and the condom was RIGHT there). I think they all secretly hope for an oops but want to be able to tell people it was an accident do they don't look irresponsible.

[TalknBoutMyGirl]

So I'm not the only one.

I really want a second, DH doesn't want one yet. I haven't been on bc for a while now which was fine but we had a "scare" so now I'm reluctantly going back on BC. I have an appointment to have the Mirena inserted next Thursday. I so desperately hope I find out that I'm pregnant before I get it inserted.

[Anna0623]

Were waiting to ttc until january. Hoping for an october baby because by then i would only have 2-3 classes to finish my bachelors. I have mirena in right now but dh told me i could get it removed when ever i want since hes on board with having #3. I know its the responsible thing to wait to have mirena removed but my heart wants another baby and so do my arms my youngest ds is 2 1/2 will be 3 in december, and the kids want a subling so bad both kids as almost on a daily basis.