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Old 10-05-2012, 12:57 PM   #1
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How do the parents respond? Are they upset by it? At her age, I would think it would be more harmful to disappear completely, BUT I find it odd she's doing this to the parents she's been with for quite awhile now. It's not like the transition was really recent. Any reason to suspect her needs aren't being met, no bond, etc?
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I dont know what goes on behind closed doors in their home or if her needs are being met. I do believe they have a bond.

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That's tough. Since you're seeing her as frequently as you are and obviously mean the world to her, I would not disappear or even decrease it as I think decreasing might make her worse when she does see you. I think disappearing would do her more damage than the not wanting to transition from you does. JMO
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Old 10-06-2012, 04:36 PM   #5
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That's tough. Since you're seeing her as frequently as you are and obviously mean the world to her, I would not disappear or even decrease it as I think decreasing might make her worse when she does see you. I think disappearing would do her more damage than the not wanting to transition from you does. JMO
I agree 100%. And im wondering what's going on behind closed doors to cause this change. Its not like she just went home recently right? I would be concerned. What do her parents say about it?
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