Reply Hey Mom! Learn more about the Gerber Life Insurance Grow-Up Plan!
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 10-06-2012, 06:29 AM   #1
Mom2Connor's Avatar
Registered Users
Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 3,283
Donating clothes question

Do you, as the foster home, have much contact with adopting grandparents when the parent has lost or given up custody of an infant?

Our DC provider (occasional use) is now a foster home, and has a 3 month old placement that is being adopted by his grandparents. I have two huge bags of nice clothes that would fit him perfectly. I was thinking of asking our DC provider if she thinks the grandparents would be in need of the clothes for the baby, at least nice winter clothing. I am going to see her and the LO tonight.

Thoughts? Would she have that kind of contact with the grandparents (or do they go through social/case workers?) and would it be rude of her to ask if they are in need of the clothes, etc? We were otherwise planning to donate them to a local womens/childrens shelter that is very well known in the area.

I'm not interested in parting everything out and selling it. I've kept what I want and want to donate the rest to someone in need.


Mom2Connor is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-06-2012, 07:35 AM   #2
WynneBabies's Avatar
Registered Users
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: USA
Posts: 6,550
My Mood:
Re: Donating clothes question

She may have contact. I have had contact with all the relative placements my babies have gone to. I think it would be a nice thing for your DCP to ask them if they'll need clothing as she can then bring you up. I would think they'd appreciate it, but you never know.
A SAHM to four long out of diapers (all used cloth for all or part of their diapering years) and a baby girl currently in cloth part time.
WynneBabies is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-06-2012, 08:05 AM   #3
Msheidiann's Avatar
Registered Users
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: California
Posts: 1,014
My Mood:
It's worth a try! I am sure they would be thrilled!!
SAHM and Wife to Matthew
Forever Mommy to Thomas
Msheidiann is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-06-2012, 05:51 PM   #4
newmommy13's Avatar
Registered Users
Join Date: Apr 2008
Posts: 7,751
That's very nice of you! I'm sure there would be some kind of contact even if it is limited. Even if not she can ask the case worker to.pass along the message.
I, mama to dd A (3-08) dfs J (10/11) and in love with newbie dfd N! (10/13)
hopeful pre-adoptive foster family
newmommy13 is offline   Reply With Quote

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

Copyright 2005 - 2018 VIX-WomensForum LLC. All Rights Reserved.