Reply Hey Mom! Learn more about the Gerber Life Insurance Grow-Up Plan!
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 10-12-2012, 04:54 PM   #1
Nickel+3's Avatar
Registered Users
Formerly: nickel+2
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Whidbey Island, WA
Posts: 4,026
My Mood:
Where do i start?

We want to foster, possibly foster to adopt. It's a tad overwhelming. We are in WA near Seattle. Any other Washington state foster moms around who can hold my hand through all this? It's been on my heart for a while now. We finally own a home and feel ready to start the process. It breaks my heart to think of all the neglected kids that could be in a loving home. How does it all work? Is there an allowance for foster parents?



Nickel - mama to boys D 09 and F 10 and my girl H 12
#4 due in October!
Nickel+3 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-12-2012, 08:48 PM   #2
looking8186's Avatar
Registered Users
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Massachusetts
Posts: 2,829
Re: Where do i start?

Hey mama,
I'm not from your area but I wanted to pop in to say congrats!!! Fostering is a really amazing and wonderful experience. I'm in the process of becoming licensed on my own right now but had fostered before in a bit of a different situation. I can walk you through the general outline of how things tend to go. Every office will do things a bit differently but I hope this at least gives a general picture and some info to go off of!

I was going to list it all out but I here's a link to info for your state!

Call your local agency and they will talk to you, send out info etc
Go to an orientation where they do a VERY general overview of foster care vs adoption etc
Have a home visit if you decide you're interested where they do a quick look at your home.
Have a CORI background check done
Take a 30 hour training course
Complete a homestudy where they interview you and your family, get financial info, talk about family history, parenting style, etc etc
Foster once approved!

To answer your questions generally... When you become a foster parent you can choose to have children of any age/gender in your home, you are allowed to specify. You get called with a placement that (hopefully) matches your criteria and you can then decide whether or not you are able to take that particular kiddo. If you can, they are placed with you and you care for them until they are either reunified or placed with an adoptive family. Every child comes into care with the goal of reunification so we, as foster parents, work with the agency to get that kiddo placed safely back with bio-parent(s). Its not always easy but it is an awesome experience! You do receive a daily stipend (its $22 a day here) plus (theoretically) a quarterly clothing allowance and money for b-days, christmas etc.

Sorry if this is scattered... I'm tired! Feel free to ask any other questions you may have.
Happy to be mama to my sweet little home birthed, breastfed, extended rear facing, co-sleeping, cloth diapered, snuggled and loved baby girl Havana Desai 5-18-09
Blessed to be mama to my little Angel Teya Mackenzie born into heaven on 3-27-08
looking8186 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-13-2012, 02:01 AM   #3
anne_josh's Avatar
Registered Users
Join Date: May 2006
Location: WA the state, not DC
Posts: 1,084
Re: Where do i start?

We're not too far from you and just starting the process. I don't log on very often, but if you want to chat about it please pm me (I get emails when I get a pm). I can share what I've learned so far also
anne, the wahm formerly known as zephyrclothdiapers (now retired) + josh (the dh) = ds1 06/04 & ds2 09/10
~ never forgetting our ^i^ 08/03
done biologically, working on adopting from foster care
anne_josh is offline   Reply With Quote

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

Copyright 2005 - 2018 VIX-WomensForum LLC. All Rights Reserved.