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Old 09-18-2012, 08:25 PM   #1
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Anyone NOT DTD??

Oh boy....ever since I found out I was pregnant (7weeks) I refuse to have sex. 1st of all I am not a horny pregnant woman. 2nd im afraid of hurting the baby. Laugh all you want!! I think with DS we had sex maybe 2 times during my pregnancy but then had it regularly the last 2 weeks or so. Poor OH. He's been so understanding and asks me every night if tonight's "the night". I don't know what's wrong with me!! I pleasure him in other ways but I know he would love to DTD. Anyone else feeling similiar? Or am I the only weird one??

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Old 09-18-2012, 10:24 PM   #2
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Re: Anyone NOT DTD??

My drive has been down a bit lately. We are doing it more like twice a week rather than every other night and I'm only doing it because it's good for our relationship and not really because I'm super into it (things get really roomematy between us when we don't). It's nice, but I'm not all hot to trot or anything and I'm definitely starting to feel a little self conscious about my body these days.
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Old 09-18-2012, 10:55 PM   #3
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I could care less. But DH's and I schedules are not meshing because he is so busy at work that every 2-3 weeks is a slight possibility.
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Old 09-19-2012, 11:18 AM   #4
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i was actually rearing to go in the 1st trimester which given my histoy of mc shocked me. Since the 2nd i am not in the mood at all but still dtd 1-2 times aweek bc i know it's important to him. Sigh. I hope it comes back.
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Old 09-19-2012, 11:25 AM   #5
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Not in your DDC but we RARELY DTD when I am pregnant. DH and I are both on the same page as far as that goes. Honestly after all the time we spent TTC a break from sex is ok LOL
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I've definitely lost interest lately, but I think it's more because I'm so tired and still getting over a cold. DH is always understanding even though I know he wants that area of our life to get back to normal.
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I'm currently 17wks pregnant and haven't had much interest in physical intimacy! At least, not when it's convenient for both of us. I'm tired and/or not feeling well - I don't want to stay up late or wake up early! One day I was feeling particuarly guilty about it, and it occurred to me that it's actually not natural for mammals to have sex when the female is pregnant - we just make the choice to do it for our husbands! Well, I have heard that some women have more of a sex drive when they're pregnant, but that's not me. You don't have the same ebb and flow of hormones before you got pregnant, so it only makes sense you wouldn't feel the urge.
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Am I the only one whose drive goes up when I'm pregnant???
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No interest but I try. I'm just so tired and uncomfortable!
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Am I the only one whose drive goes up when I'm pregnant???
Mine does Pretty much as soon as the second tri starts.
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