Diaper Swappers

blissfullyblessed · 05-16-2007, 12:49 PM

I choose other bc w/DD (my only one so far) I ended up using formula towards the end.

I always thought that nursing was going to just be natural, and the baby and I would get it w/no problems...WRONG!!!!! The 2nd day of DD's life I was crying all the time bc it wasn't working. I have short nipples, and it was just plain hard. DD had jaundice, and was put in the hospital her 5th day of life. I used formula w/breastmilk until she was about a month old. I was determined that it was going to work, and finally after I put the bottles away it did. It was so simple after that, and I couldn't believe how easy it was after everything we'd gone through. She was always small, and her dr. was concerned about her weight + she was eating like every 30mins to hr of the day and night. Oh, I was so tired. I tried everything except meds to up my supply, and nothing was working. DD's ped just kept pushing formula, and didn't help me in anyway w/trying to up my supply. I nursed her until she was 9 months, and then she was on formula. I've got to say that she was a different baby, and was so happy and content.

So, my 1st choice is to bf only - but I'm not totally against giving formula. I miss it terribly, and am so glad that I was determined to make it work bc there is a bond between a baby and it's momma when it eats that is indescribeable. There's just no way to explain in words what it feels like to know that you are your babies food supply. It sounds strange, but once you've done it you'd know what I'm talkin about.

No one is my family has nursed their child. It's your family and you decide what works best for you. Too many people spend too much time pointing fingers, and just need to worry about their own life

ok - I just read a couple of posts above this, and I'm in no way saying that you can't bond w/your baby if your bottle feeding. Oh my ppl take things too seriously. This is just a message board.

sesa70 · 05-16-2007, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by ChurchPunkMom

Well, having not experienced the physical aspect of the nursing relationship, I'm not at all surprised that you would neither understand nor recognize it.

I think this is just an ignorant comment. Its clear your implying your bond with your child is better or on a different level than my bond with my child. Thats just crap.

Calideedle · 05-16-2007, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by sesa70

I feel like this discussion has gone awry. Its exactly what I didnt want... a bunch of bfing mamas politely bashing ffing.

Facts arent bashing, you rudly stated you'll FF future kids & dont understand why Moms would BF. Whos bashing? If you want to FF and dont care to try BFing thats your right, dont try and put down BFing and the points others make.

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Originally Posted by ChurchPunkMom

Well, having not experienced the physical aspect of the nursing relationship, I'm not at all surprised that you would neither understand nor recognize it.

yep yep yep!

Camellia · 05-16-2007, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by sesa70

I have a question here and I am really honestly curious...

Why does this get so heated? Why do people get so darn defensive? I am happy with my choice. I dont feel one bit bad or inferior. Obviously bfing mamas that chose to do so are the same. So why all the anger? I know this gets heated, but I guess I am really curious as to why.
Is it because bfing mamas feel threatened by ffing moms? Do ffing moms feel intimidated by bfing moms? what is it?

IMO, those of us who have done a lot of research and study into how societal influences have sabotaged breastfeeding are *angry* about it. Millions of moms and babies are missing out on something so natural, normal, special and beneficial. I honestly find it really, really sad and unfortunate.

I'm not trying to say anything about individuals who choose to formula feed. I'm talking about the culture we live in that normalizes artificial milk for human babies.

Same goes for circumcision.

I can't speak for the other side, but there you have it from one breastfeeding mom with an intact son.

jax · 05-16-2007, 12:54 PM

[QUOTE=hizzarris;1088709] Breastfeeding is such an unbelievable experience that I don't know why anyone wouldn't even try. It can be difficult at first, but it is SOOOOOO worth the trouble. (Not to mention all the health benefits for you and your child.)
QUOTE]

I agree. I have heard people say "breastfeeding isn't for everyone" but I think everyone should try. There is a reason you produce milk after you birth a baby.....

Calideedle · 05-16-2007, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by sesa70

I have a question here and I am really honestly curious...

Why does this get so heated? Why do people get so darn defensive? I am happy with my choice. I dont feel one bit bad or inferior. Obviously bfing mamas that chose to do so are the same. So why all the anger? I know this gets heated, but I guess I am really curious as to why.
Is it because bfing mamas feel threatened by ffing moms? Do ffing moms feel intimidated by bfing moms? what is it?

Arent you getting defensive? And "laughing" as you stated at others comments?

I personally dont care if a Mother BFs or FFs (well IRL I care but on here I have learned that its no use) because I know what is best for my kids and I have researched hours upon hours on BF & FF!

Its just silly to start a thread then get mad when people try and make points & if you havent BF you dont know what its like, period!

Off to nurse my toddlers

AmyEm · 05-16-2007, 12:58 PM

I chose breastfeeding only.

With my first, it was very difficult in the beginning. It hurt a lot, I got blisters, he nursed literally alllll the time and I would cry through feedings sometimes b/c it hurt so much. We discovered that he was tongue-tied so I imagine that had a lot to do with the pain I was feeling. I had to use a nipple shield for a while b/c he had a really hard time latching onto one side, then we got thrush, then I got really sick and my supply dipped but with the help of fenugreek, oatmeal, and lots and lots of nursing my supply returned.

I was determined not to give up and he ended up nursing until he weaned halfway through my pg with my DD (he was about 20-21mos old).

I was determined to breastfeed my daughter too and it was SOO much easier the second time around. We had no problems whatsoever and she is 18mos old now and still nursing.

If you have problems breastfeeding one child it does not mean you will have problems with the next child.

patty_o_furniture · 05-16-2007, 01:00 PM

I guess I am kind of a breastmilk only/other type gal. My 1st I BF for 8 months then went to bottle, DD2 I BF still but do offer an occasional bottle. I've been trying really hard to hit the year mark on mostly Breast milk.

I have no problems with people who use formula, sometimes you gotta do what ya gotta do!

kattayanna_mom · 05-16-2007, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by sesa70

are you seriously comparing formula to mcdonals? Honestly, all I can say about that is thanks for the laugh.

Have you looked at the ingredients in a can of formula?
It's a highly processed milk substitute for infants.
as for formula not hurting babies that's not true there is plenty of research stating otherwise.

Now with that being said I voted breast milk only because that is what my 21 mth old gets.She's never had a drop of formula and I'm very proud that we prevailed through several cases of thrush,mastisis ,over active letdown and colic.
I learned alot in the 10 yrs about breastfeeding between my 1st 2 babies and my last.
I only breastfed my first 2 until they were 4 mths old then switched to formula.I regret it to this day.

kimsclothkids · 05-16-2007, 01:01 PM

Honestly, ff and bf really don't compare. Breastfeeding is a relationship. Formula feeding is feeding your baby. NO, I'm not saying that it doesn't encourage bonding or that it's not special or that it's not 'good', or whatever - but they are just two TOTALLY different things. Breastfeeding is so much more than 'just feeding'.

No ... You said "Breastfeeding is a relationship. Formula feeding is feeding your baby"
I gained a "RELATIONSHIP" with my babies even though I FF!!

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05-16-2007, 12:49 PM	#111
blissfullyblessed Registered Users Formerly: kerstynsmom Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: North Texas Posts: 1,357 Ratings: 129 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: How did you choose to feed your baby? I choose other bc w/DD (my only one so far) I ended up using formula towards the end. I always thought that nursing was going to just be natural, and the baby and I would get it w/no problems...WRONG!!!!! The 2nd day of DD's life I was crying all the time bc it wasn't working. I have short nipples, and it was just plain hard. DD had jaundice, and was put in the hospital her 5th day of life. I used formula w/breastmilk until she was about a month old. I was determined that it was going to work, and finally after I put the bottles away it did. It was so simple after that, and I couldn't believe how easy it was after everything we'd gone through. She was always small, and her dr. was concerned about her weight + she was eating like every 30mins to hr of the day and night. Oh, I was so tired. I tried everything except meds to up my supply, and nothing was working. DD's ped just kept pushing formula, and didn't help me in anyway w/trying to up my supply. I nursed her until she was 9 months, and then she was on formula. I've got to say that she was a different baby, and was so happy and content. So, my 1st choice is to bf only - but I'm not totally against giving formula. I miss it terribly, and am so glad that I was determined to make it work bc there is a bond between a baby and it's momma when it eats that is indescribeable. There's just no way to explain in words what it feels like to know that you are your babies food supply. It sounds strange, but once you've done it you'd know what I'm talkin about. No one is my family has nursed their child. It's your family and you decide what works best for you. Too many people spend too much time pointing fingers, and just need to worry about their own life ok - I just read a couple of posts above this, and I'm in no way saying that you can't bond w/your baby if your bottle feeding. Oh my ppl take things too seriously. This is just a message board. __________________ Kerstyn's world Mommy's facebook Last edited by blissfullyblessed; 05-16-2007 at 12:56 PM.

05-16-2007, 12:54 PM	#115
jax Registered Users Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: northeast ohio Posts: 605 Ratings: 27 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: How did you choose to feed your baby? [QUOTE=hizzarris;1088709] Breastfeeding is such an unbelievable experience that I don't know why anyone wouldn't even try. It can be difficult at first, but it is SOOOOOO worth the trouble. (Not to mention all the health benefits for you and your child.) QUOTE] I agree. I have heard people say "breastfeeding isn't for everyone" but I think everyone should try. There is a reason you produce milk after you birth a baby..... __________________ cheri, wife to tim and mother to DS fintan- 2/07!

05-16-2007, 12:58 PM	#117
AmyEm Registered Users Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,309 Ratings: 90 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: How did you choose to feed your baby? I chose breastfeeding only. With my first, it was very difficult in the beginning. It hurt a lot, I got blisters, he nursed literally alllll the time and I would cry through feedings sometimes b/c it hurt so much. We discovered that he was tongue-tied so I imagine that had a lot to do with the pain I was feeling. I had to use a nipple shield for a while b/c he had a really hard time latching onto one side, then we got thrush, then I got really sick and my supply dipped but with the help of fenugreek, oatmeal, and lots and lots of nursing my supply returned. I was determined not to give up and he ended up nursing until he weaned halfway through my pg with my DD (he was about 20-21mos old). I was determined to breastfeed my daughter too and it was SOO much easier the second time around. We had no problems whatsoever and she is 18mos old now and still nursing. If you have problems breastfeeding one child it does not mean you will have problems with the next child. __________________

05-16-2007, 01:00 PM	#118
patty_o_furniture Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: You-tah Posts: 1,650 Ratings: 58 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: How did you choose to feed your baby? I guess I am kind of a breastmilk only/other type gal. My 1st I BF for 8 months then went to bottle, DD2 I BF still but do offer an occasional bottle. I've been trying really hard to hit the year mark on mostly Breast milk. I have no problems with people who use formula, sometimes you gotta do what ya gotta do!