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Old 03-13-2013, 07:55 PM   #21
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Chemical pregnancy is such an UGLY term. I'm so sorry you've lost two now, so close together. We too had an early loss in January at 4w4d and one last October at 8w0d. We named out little one in October, and it seemed fitting to do the same with this most recent loss. We chose "Bud" because I felt it may have been a boy, but more important, it was our little Budding life I'll meet one day.

Naming my lost ones gave me closure. I felt as if they continued to live on. Hugs, mama.

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Old 04-09-2013, 09:43 PM   #22
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People say crappy things because they feel awkward and uncomfortable and don't know what to say. When I had my early loss my DH said "it's just cells". When I lost one of my twins a 20 weeks some actually told me I "dodged a bullot". People who haven't been through it are clueless. I wish I was clueless too because having the knowledge I do hurts. Hugs to you.
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Old 04-15-2013, 01:28 PM   #23
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Re: feeling awkward about posting *everything mentioned*

whether it was cells, a baby, or was YOUR baby.
I'm currently recovering from my second ectopic, and I keep hearing, At least you have your 4 healthy children, maybe it's a sign your done...Blah, blah, blah. Loosing a baby is a SICK way to say it's a sign to stop.
I feel your pain!
I have to take some time off from TTC due to the methotrexate shot, but I've been reading up on herbs to help increase my fertility and health!

I hope you get your sticky baby soon!
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