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Old 03-12-2013, 05:37 PM   #1
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Hi ladies a few hours after I posted my belly picture yesterday at 18wks 4days I went to the doctor and found out I was 4cm dilated and my membranes had ruptured. I was then transported to another hospital and after much discussion with the high risk Dr, doctor on call and my Ob there was nothing they could do. So we (myself and S/o) choose to induce because I was at high risk for infection. I then gave birth at 12:49am March 12 to my son Darwin Francis he weighed 7.3oz and he was 8 1/2 inches long. He was so beautiful and perfect that it's still surreal. I will always love my little man and we made sure to tell him as we held and bonded with him for 7 hrs. We miss him dearly and he will always be apart of our family. Its so sad we had to say goodbye before saying hello. But S/O aunt (jewelry designer) is going to make a necklace urn so I can keep him close to my heart. She is also going to make another so we can donate it to the hospital for the next couple who has to walk in our shoes. I want to thank you ladies for your generosity and advice and I wish you all a happy nine months. I will be looking for your birth stories come August however I will be taking these next few months to heal and grieve. I will post a picture of the urn once I receive it.

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Old 03-12-2013, 05:41 PM   #2
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oh no sweetie


my sister lost her son at 17-18 weeks due to ruptured membranes

I am so sorry...words can't express what I'm feeling for you right now
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I am so sorry Praying for you and your family.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
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Oh, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure Darwin was just beautiful and I'm glad you have such a special aunt to make you such a special gift. <3
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Oh no!! I'm so very sorry You were like one of my favorite mamas in the group. I'm soooo very sorry for your loss of your little blessing. He will hold a special place in your heart forever.
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I'm SO very sorry to hear this news, mama.

Words are so inadequate. Sending you much love and many hugs during this terrible time.
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I'm so sorry for your loss Mama. It is never easy to loss a child. *Hugs*
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How devastating! I'm so sorry and have no words. I will continue to pray for your peace. I know sweet Darwin was beautiful in every way.
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