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Old 04-25-2013, 12:28 PM   #11
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Re: Worried about labor pain for baby #2

I was too quick for an epidural with my first two, but with my third I had a bit of time.

They offered it to me when my contractions were coming every 90 seconds and lasting for 1 minute. They said, "Well, it usually takes us 45 minutes to put this in, but since you're in a lot of pain we can do it in 20 if you lie on your side. You'll have to tell us when you have a contraction, though, so we can wait until it passes."

I said, "Yeah, I don't want to have 10 major contractions while you've got a needle in my back."

I passed on it. The anesthesiologist thought I was nuts. He kept trying to talk me into it. I was more afraid of the side effects of the epidural than the actual labor. And wouldn't you know, baby was born 20 minutes later.

I always worried about L&D. Whole pregnancy. Mooed like a cow through the whole thing. Yelled at nurses during transition to STOP CHECKING ME! :smile:

Pretty sure my husband and the nurses laughed at me sounding like a dying sheep during each childbirth. I just remember being really irritated that they were having fun and talking about the Red Sox during my contractions.

In the end, I didn't care about making noise or reacting from the pain. Your baby is your gold medal for surviving the whole birthing process (whether natural, drug-induced or c-section).


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Old 04-25-2013, 12:59 PM   #12
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Re: Worried about labor pain for baby #2

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I'm at 38 weeks and getting really nervous about the pain to come. I was worried about it for DD too. But now I know just how painful it is, I'm really freaking myself out! Anyone else obsess over L&D pain?

It probably doesn't help that this babe is super active and pushing all over my abdomen which causes pressure and pain and reminds me of what's to come.

With DD I had IV pain medication that helped during labor but not delivery. I liked having a mostly natural birth and fast recovery (we were barely in the hospital 24 hours). The thought of an epideral freaks me out. Anyone have any suggestions or advice?
I would relish the bolded and remind myself that I am capable of handling it now and it's practice for when it is making progress. I always joke with my family that my uterus is in there doing pushups when a good Braxton Hicks makes my nasal passages clog up and my breathing increase. I use them as an opportunity to practice relaxing. Then I congratulate myself and my uterus.

Don't think, "Oh, dear and this is just a taste." Think, "Here comes some practice time and I'm doing great."
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Old 04-25-2013, 05:03 PM   #13
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Re: Worried about labor pain for baby #2

It's much easier to handle the pain if you can set aside the fear and just go with it! Good support is crucial.
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