Re: Gender disappointment
I could have written this post, you are not a jerk or a terrible person at all. We have 3 boys, and it hurt a little more every time I heard "its a boy!"...but then when I had them, they were just amazing. I wouldn't trade my boys for all the girls in the world, as I'm sure you feel the same way. We are going to have 1 more baby (no til next year) and i will pray that its a girl, but i'm working so hard at being thankful for what I have and what I might get. Its incredibly hard, but its a work in progress. Don't feel bad for being disappointed!