can i HS? - Cloth Diapers & Parenting Community

**Birdof1985** · 08-04-2007, 01:20 AM

im not sure really where to ask this, but i figured maybe you all may know. I really really want to HS my son when he gets closer to it (hell be 3 Feb), BUT his father and I do not live together and dont really get along, i mean we do but we arent lets sit down and have tea kind of ppl. his father has custody of him, thats the BIG thing. SO my question, can i HS him? or is it whatever his dad chooses and im stuck?

jen

ps- i feel dumb calling a lawyer out of the phone book just to ask this, so i thought id ask here and maybe someone would know.

zonapellucida · 08-04-2007, 10:31 AM

Do you have JOINT custody? otherwise you may want to get it. HS without custody in near impossible as you must have the child to be able to HS. You have a couple years until you have to put a formal letter in so you have time. HTH

**Birdof1985** · 08-04-2007, 10:57 PM

no we dont have joint...

I MORE than want it, his father (and his parents who pay for the lawyer) however dont.

jen

thanks

08-04-2007, 01:20 AM	#1
Birdof1985 Banned Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Mid-West USA Posts: 4,202 Ratings: 107 Feedback: 98% My Mood:	can i HS? im not sure really where to ask this, but i figured maybe you all may know. I really really want to HS my son when he gets closer to it (hell be 3 Feb), BUT his father and I do not live together and dont really get along, i mean we do but we arent lets sit down and have tea kind of ppl. his father has custody of him, thats the BIG thing. SO my question, can i HS him? or is it whatever his dad chooses and im stuck? jen ps- i feel dumb calling a lawyer out of the phone book just to ask this, so i thought id ask here and maybe someone would know. __________________ Banned permanently for coming back under second Username AlliBear Birdof1985@yahoo.com

08-04-2007, 10:31 AM	#2
zonapellucida Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Diligently working on getting out of the hellish state of FL Posts: 4,296 Ratings: 147 Feedback: 98% My Mood:	Re: can i HS? Do you have JOINT custody? otherwise you may want to get it. HS without custody in near impossible as you must have the child to be able to HS. You have a couple years until you have to put a formal letter in so you have time. HTH __________________ Zona:mom to 10

08-04-2007, 10:57 PM	#3
Birdof1985 Banned Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Mid-West USA Posts: 4,202 Ratings: 107 Feedback: 98% My Mood:	Re: can i HS? no we dont have joint... I MORE than want it, his father (and his parents who pay for the lawyer) however dont. jen thanks __________________ Banned permanently for coming back under second Username AlliBear Birdof1985@yahoo.com

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