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Old 10-11-2007, 10:28 PM   #11
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ignore stupid people!

I am sorry they say stupid rude stuff like tha to u!

i hope that they can experience the love u have for ur 3 wonderful girls!

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Old 10-11-2007, 10:45 PM   #12
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Re: oh no! another girl???? you must be so upset!

I am getting something similar. I have 2 boys and now this babe on the way is a girl. We are getting OH FINALLY your family is complete now!!! How great is that!!! Thank goodness it was not another boy....
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Old 10-11-2007, 11:07 PM   #13
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I am getting something similar. I have 2 boys and now this babe on the way is a girl. We are getting OH FINALLY your family is complete now!!! How great is that!!! Thank goodness it was not another boy....
even more stupid ignorant people talking!

sorry ladies!!

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Old 10-11-2007, 11:16 PM   #14
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BTDT I understand.I also get people telling me mychances of having another girl when we TTC is high because I have 3 already.
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Old 10-11-2007, 11:29 PM   #15
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Sorry that people are so rude to you.

I get the "I bet your hoping for a girl this time" comments, like I don't want another boy or something. I would love to have 4 boys, but a girl in the mix would be nice as well.... either way its a baby.

You will have to come up with some really good come backs lol.
Just remember that most people don't really think before they speak.... I do it all the time
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Old 10-11-2007, 11:34 PM   #16
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Re: oh no! another girl???? you must be so upset!

Ugh... that is so irritating. When I was pregnant with #2 everyone was like 'hopefully this one is a boy" because our first was a girl. It irritated me to death... like our DD wasn't good enough for us to want another one just like her. #2 was a boy... so now we always get comments like 'oh, one of each... that's good... now you don't have to have anymore'. Like the goal of childbearing is to get one of each gender and then stop. WTH? Where do people come up with this stuff?
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Old 10-11-2007, 11:56 PM   #17
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I've been getting it ever since I had dd2. People started asking when we were going to try for a boy. I had NO INTENTION of trying for a boy!!! Dh and I both love having our girls and are both hoping this one (our last) will be another girl. This whole pregnancy people keep saying that we, but especially dh, must want a boy. It's really hard to get through to them that, no, we just wanted another baby. Fine, if they must ask, we are hoping for a girl. We would love a boy, of course, but if you're asking what we are hoping for.... It will be really interesting to see what everyone says after I have my u/s in a week. I can feel my psycho preggo hormones gearing up...
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Old 10-11-2007, 11:57 PM   #18
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well i wanted a boy so when people ask me they usually know i wanted a boy and dont ask if i want another girl--- but i have had ppl ask what ill do with 2 girls and i tell them- "the same thing i did with 1 girl". LOL.
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Old 10-12-2007, 01:52 AM   #19
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Oh Mama! I am so very sorry that people are saying such stupid things to you!

I have 3 girls and I got a lot of stupid things said to me too like..
"When are you going to try for that boy?"
"Maybe you'll get a boy the next try"

and my absolute favorite..."You must be so upset that this one isn't a boy"

It irritated me to no end! I would look them in the eye and say... I WANTED a girl and God has blessed me three fold with beautiful, sweet girls! How can I not be happy about that?

We have ds and I would like another boy, but it isn't for "being a boy" it is so that DS can have the same sex playmate like the girls did. We all think that the girls having each other was such a blessing and the girls agree. I will however take another girl just fine!
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Old 10-12-2007, 01:58 AM   #20
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Is there something wrong with girls? Did I miss something? I can't believe they are saying those things to you. It seems so outdated and crass. I'm so sorry they are saying those things to you! How awful!
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