View Poll Results: How is ur sex life with ur DH/partner when u are pregnant compaired to when u r not?
The same/ no difference 13 14.13%
We have more sex - I am more "frisky" 21 22.83%
We have more sex - he is more "frisky" 6 6.52%
We have less sex 45 48.91%
other 7 7.61%
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Old 11-23-2007, 02:34 AM   #1
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is ur DH/partner more or less "frisky" since u have become pregnant???

My DH is a "normal" man in his mid 30s when I am not pregnant, but once I am with child he will not keep his hands off me!!! I feel like he is proud of his great job! Is anyone elses hubby like this? My closest girlfriends all said their dh did not want to tuch them when pregnant. I am starting to wornder what is wrong w/him

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Old 11-23-2007, 02:42 AM   #2
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My hubby is the same , meaning like a 16 year old who is ready to go ANY time , I swear he is a always frisky , ALWAYS ! He's 24 by the way .
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Old 11-23-2007, 02:52 AM   #3
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dh and i were both twenty when i was pregnant, so maybe we are just horny young people. but i know that even a picture of me and my little bump in the first few months (we were stationed at seperate bases the first two months) made him kinda rowdy. i think it is the whole "i am man because i got my woman pregnant" thing. he loved the new curves (and the boobs). of course, about 20 weeks along, i became the one acting like a teenage boy and he actually having to cut me off from exhaustion. i chased him down at least twice a day.
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Old 11-23-2007, 04:34 AM   #4
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it all depends on the day/how were getting along/sleep issues i chose 'other'. he does still want me and i want him but its hard to dtd when im huge and dd hardly naps anymore and dh is always at work. (my dh is 21)
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Old 11-23-2007, 04:45 AM   #5
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My partner won't touch me when I'm preggers...and I got really mad/sad/upset about it but I guess there are men out there (and in my house) that don't find pregnant women 'sexy'.

I talked to my guy friends about this issue and they said it is a mix of the mama-factor (that they see their own mother in us, eeww, yuck!) and that they worry about 'hurting' the baby....

My midwife explained to my man that it does not hurt the baby (except for some rare cases, which I was NOT!) but to no avail....he just isn't turned on by my preggo body! Which is sooooo fustrating since I get more 'frisky'.

I'm not sure that I wanna have more kids because it is so hard living in a sexual desert while I'm preggers!
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My partner won't touch me when I'm preggers...and I got really mad/sad/upset about it but I guess there are men out there (and in my house) that don't find pregnant women 'sexy'.

I talked to my guy friends about this issue and they said it is a mix of the mama-factor (that they see their own mother in us, eeww, yuck!) and that they worry about 'hurting' the baby....

My midwife explained to my man that it does not hurt the baby (except for some rare cases, which I was NOT!) but to no avail....he just isn't turned on by my preggo body! Which is sooooo fustrating since I get more 'frisky'.

I'm not sure that I wanna have more kids because it is so hard living in a sexual desert while I'm preggers!
I'm sorry momma I'm sure your beautiful~both preg and not preg.
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Old 11-23-2007, 06:18 AM   #7
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My partner won't touch me when I'm preggers...and I got really mad/sad/upset about it but I guess there are men out there (and in my house) that don't find pregnant women 'sexy'.

I talked to my guy friends about this issue and they said it is a mix of the mama-factor (that they see their own mother in us, eeww, yuck!) and that they worry about 'hurting' the baby....

My midwife explained to my man that it does not hurt the baby (except for some rare cases, which I was NOT!) but to no avail....he just isn't turned on by my preggo body! Which is sooooo fustrating since I get more 'frisky'.

I'm not sure that I wanna have more kids because it is so hard living in a sexual desert while I'm preggers!

amen...here too...it's not the being pregnant, but once i started showing and he could feel it move. I take it as i am not attractive, but he swares he just sees me as beautiful and motherly and not as sexy. But now we are in the 2 week strech and sex can help bring on labor...i just tell him "take your pants off, let's go" ha ha!! So sorry momma...i can relate...seriously, we went 2 months!
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...seriously, we went 2 months!
two months is nothing! I am 38 weeks along and we have had sex 2 times while during my ENTIRE pregnancy. The last one was about 15 weeks along.
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My dh wants it just as much but my own drive is less than zero. I have to pretend even for a while after delivery....4 c-sections will do that to you.
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Re: is ur DH/partner more or less "frisky" since u have become pregnant???

My DH has no issues sex wise with my being pregnant, but since *I* have no sex drive we have DTD maybe 4 times in the last 5 months.
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