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Old 08-28-2006, 08:54 AM   #1
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Thumbs down day 41, still no $...

OK, so on 7-18 I sent $7 in PP to a momma here. I didn't hear from her or receive the item for 2 weeks. I emailed her on 7-31- 13 days later saying I haven't received it and if she didn't send it yet, not too (I had a bad feeling). She wrote back saying her hubby just sent it on Sat (7-29) & I should be getting it by the end of the week. I wrote again & on 8-9 she said she got another package that she sent the same day as mine back the day before because her scale was off & the postage was wrong & when she gets mine back she will resend it. 8-11 she said she was going out of town & will refund my $ when she gets back. 8-14 she says she doesn't have PP & would a postal money order be ok. I said sure, just please add dc to it so we could track it. 8-16 she said she got the package back & her hubby took it to the p.o. & did I want the refund or wait for the package <sigh>. I said "refund please", & she said ok (8-16) and could I wait till 8-21 for her to send it cause she needed it for gas & food. 8-22 she says she's going to the p.o. & will write me back that night. NOW NOTHING. She won't respond to my PMs & changed it so her last activity on her profile isn't public! But she still is posting to the board!!!!!!

How do I file w/ PP & when do I leave neg fb here? I have saved every PM that was exchanged. Mods, can you look at those? Also (mods) can you see their last activity even if we can't??

So frustrating, I have been nothing but nice & extremely patient!!

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Old 08-28-2006, 08:56 AM   #2
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Re: day 41, still no $...

you can see their last activity on the boards by going to their profile... I'm sorry this happened to you Momma it's not right


ETA: duh I didn't see the part that she changed her activity thing to private
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Old 08-29-2006, 08:37 AM   #3
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Re: day 41, still no $...

Thanks, momma. Now I just have to figure out how to file w/ pp...
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Old 08-29-2006, 11:14 AM   #4
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Re: day 41, still no $...

You have 45 days to file.

go to the details part of that payment and click open a dispute link towards the bottom.

It will walk you through it all.

After it's been opened the seller has a certain amount of time and then I think it goes to a claim. When the claim is started paypal makes their own decision based on the evidence. Keep ALL your pm's etc.

No, mods cannot see her last activity though you can see all her posts to know when she last posted.

All we can do is offer suggestions on what you can do to resolve it. Just go to paypal and when it's all settled you need to leave appropriate feedback for the seller.
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Old 08-29-2006, 11:17 AM   #5
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You have until 9/01/06 to file or your time runs out! Better go do it!
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Old 08-29-2006, 11:44 AM   #6
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Re: day 41, still no $...

**Thank you** for helping! I just filed w/ pp. They said that the seller was currently unable to respond the the dispute and it escalated into a claim. Does that mean she no longer is registered w/, or changed her email addy or something??
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Old 08-30-2006, 10:13 PM   #7
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Don't know. It could mean she got the notification from paypal but declined to answer it.

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What happens is paypal gives the "seller" x number of days to respond. If they fail to do so or refuse to settle it w/o it going to a claim then paypal automatically escalates it after that time period.

With your case, if it happened immediately that could mean that she has a locked account due to other ppl filing against her. If she closed her account from when you paid and when you filed I would think you would have gotten a different response.

It's probably due to other claims she has against her.

GL and let me know how this turns out.

BTW, if paypal finds on your behalf and she has no money in her account they won't be able to refund your money. She CAN pay you back with a cc or bank account (or maybe just one or the other). But, if she doesn't her pp account will be locked until she fixes the problem/pays you back.

Do know that she may be able to register another account with paypal and keep going on and on. I'd keep an eye out to make sure she isn't selling stuff still.

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Old 09-01-2006, 02:48 PM   #8
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Re: day 41, still no $...

yes, they usually give her 10 working days (or normal days duno) to contact them, if nothing, then they wil take the $$ out of her paypal.
if you dont get your refund i will give her the neg fb. if you do and no repsonse, uhmm that is iffy, not sure if i leave neg or neutral though. i would have to think about that.
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Old 09-09-2006, 03:08 PM   #9
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Id definately be leaving feedback.
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Old 09-09-2006, 07:54 PM   #10
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Re: day 41, still no $...

PP found in my favor (but since there is no money in her acct, I get zip). Neg f/b has been left!
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