Diaper Swappers

Sweetforestcat · 08-29-2006, 09:48 AM

I hate the 2WW...I am too obsessive about it. I think I am worse when I do not chart but I am horribly obsessive this week. Maybe it is because all of the stress I am under. Do you think that is the culprit? Or maybe it is because I/we messed up.....we weren't supposed to be TTC but TTA, well I ovulated after I thought I already had. I haven't even told DH yet that I ovulated on his B-day. I think he will be really upset or maybe not. DH was looking at my PG belly and newborn shots last night though and that was nice. Maybe I just wish DH was more optimistic instead of pessimistic. ugh

My chart

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/lilmonkeybug

SugarBunsWool&More · 08-29-2006, 03:12 PM

I hate the 2WW too and I think it is a stressful crappy time of the month for every mama ttc!
So you're hoping you aren't pregnant, not hoping for a BFP, did I read that right?
Well I hope you get what you want at the end of your 2WW.

And that your DH is happy if you get pregnant on accident!

Sweetforestcat · 08-29-2006, 03:41 PM

SArah, thank you for responding. Sometimes I feel as if I am such a baby. Honestly, I do not know what I am hoping for! I do know DH and I agreed we would "roll the dice" as he put it but I know neither of us are ready right now for another baby. But on the other hand I would rather have one sooner than later so I can get back to work sooner. I guess May is a good month to be born, but I've have always wanted a newborn in summer. My other 3 were all fall babies and it is cold when trying to nurse them. I just want to give my best to a new baby and right now is not that time! I would be happy either way but I know my family would not...maybe that is the problem!

Sweetforestcat · 08-29-2006, 03:44 PM

now I feel bad that if I am PG that I would have had negative thoughts about being PG. So then I want to be PG and then will be sad when AF comes. ugh....I do hate this waiting game...why can't I know sooner! LOL

SugarBunsWool&More · 08-29-2006, 04:20 PM

I can understand the conflicted emotions! This is such a hard decision to make and I still feel conflicted about if we want another baby or not. Its hard to go from one baby to two, from what I hear.
When do you expect your AF? I have no idea when mine will come but I'm thinking about 2 weeks from yesterday, since that's when I got my positive OPK.
I hope I am pregnant this month, DH and I are both tired of the disappointment we feel when AF shows up.
I can't remember where you live, but for me here in Texas, May is hot! Just move next door, then you'll get your way with a summer baby!

Abunchofus · 09-04-2006, 10:46 AM

so when are you testing?

seems like there are several of us here on DS that are on FF also!

08-29-2006, 09:48 AM	#1
Sweetforestcat Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA - East Coast Posts: 5,486 Ratings: 322 Feedback: 100%	obsessiveness and stress with 2WW I hate the 2WW...I am too obsessive about it. I think I am worse when I do not chart but I am horribly obsessive this week. Maybe it is because all of the stress I am under. Do you think that is the culprit? Or maybe it is because I/we messed up.....we weren't supposed to be TTC but TTA, well I ovulated after I thought I already had. I haven't even told DH yet that I ovulated on his B-day. I think he will be really upset or maybe not. DH was looking at my PG belly and newborn shots last night though and that was nice. Maybe I just wish DH was more optimistic instead of pessimistic. ugh My chart http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/lilmonkeybug __________________ Mommy to my teenage son, my teen daughter, my colorful 1st Grader my happy preschooler and Baby Z!! Last edited by Sweetforestcat; 08-29-2006 at 03:41 PM.

08-29-2006, 03:12 PM	#2
SugarBunsWool&More Formerly: RileysMama Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 4,957 Ratings: 253 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: obsessiveness and stress with 2WW I hate the 2WW too and I think it is a stressful crappy time of the month for every mama ttc! So you're hoping you aren't pregnant, not hoping for a BFP, did I read that right? Well I hope you get what you want at the end of your 2WW. And that your DH is happy if you get pregnant on accident! __________________ S a r a h www.marykay.com/sarahdoesgreat I sell MK and I'm a SAHM of 3!

08-29-2006, 03:41 PM	#3
Sweetforestcat Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA - East Coast Posts: 5,486 Ratings: 322 Feedback: 100%	Re: obsessiveness and stress with 2WW SArah, thank you for responding. Sometimes I feel as if I am such a baby. Honestly, I do not know what I am hoping for! I do know DH and I agreed we would "roll the dice" as he put it but I know neither of us are ready right now for another baby. But on the other hand I would rather have one sooner than later so I can get back to work sooner. I guess May is a good month to be born, but I've have always wanted a newborn in summer. My other 3 were all fall babies and it is cold when trying to nurse them. I just want to give my best to a new baby and right now is not that time! I would be happy either way but I know my family would not...maybe that is the problem! __________________ Mommy to my teenage son, my teen daughter, my colorful 1st Grader my happy preschooler and Baby Z!!

08-29-2006, 03:44 PM	#4
Sweetforestcat Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA - East Coast Posts: 5,486 Ratings: 322 Feedback: 100%	Re: obsessiveness and stress with 2WW now I feel bad that if I am PG that I would have had negative thoughts about being PG. So then I want to be PG and then will be sad when AF comes. ugh....I do hate this waiting game...why can't I know sooner! LOL __________________ Mommy to my teenage son, my teen daughter, my colorful 1st Grader my happy preschooler and Baby Z!! Last edited by Sweetforestcat; 08-30-2006 at 12:23 PM.

08-29-2006, 04:20 PM	#5
SugarBunsWool&More Formerly: RileysMama Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 4,957 Ratings: 253 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: obsessiveness and stress with 2WW I can understand the conflicted emotions! This is such a hard decision to make and I still feel conflicted about if we want another baby or not. Its hard to go from one baby to two, from what I hear. When do you expect your AF? I have no idea when mine will come but I'm thinking about 2 weeks from yesterday, since that's when I got my positive OPK. I hope I am pregnant this month, DH and I are both tired of the disappointment we feel when AF shows up. I can't remember where you live, but for me here in Texas, May is hot! Just move next door, then you'll get your way with a summer baby! __________________ S a r a h www.marykay.com/sarahdoesgreat I sell MK and I'm a SAHM of 3!

09-04-2006, 10:46 AM	#6
Abunchofus Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 5,901 Ratings: 219 Feedback: 100%	Re: obsessiveness and stress with 2WW so when are you testing? seems like there are several of us here on DS that are on FF also! __________________ ~ Christi ~ ~~ Help meet to my DH ~~ Momma to 9 ~~ A Bunch of Knits ~ Custom Cabled Knits ~ Gallery ~ Blog ~ PM for details* Licensed Bloomies & Turtle Butt Knitter ~ ISO: ISO/IHA List