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Old 04-03-2008, 04:20 PM   #11
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I think it just depends on *you* and what you feel comfortable with ... JMO.

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Old 04-03-2008, 04:22 PM   #12
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Mine are off limits until I am done bf dd#2. I breast fed dd #1 until 21 months...so poor dh during that time..hee hee but I also have a tendency to leak not just in the first few months but throughout breast feeding. Plus my hubby is not into the possiblitly of getting a mouth full of breast milk-haha! But when dd#2 was born he sadly said good bye to my boobs for a couple yrs.
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Old 04-03-2008, 04:37 PM   #13
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I never felt comfortable with my breast in the first place. They were really never something that turned me on. So nothing really much changed just because I was breastfeeding. But when I am in the mood for it, I like it. Its sorta like, we don't not have sex, because it reminds me of my baby coming out, KWIM. But at the beginning were they are really sensitive, I don't like them to be touched. But after a couple months that all goes away, and they returned to normal.

The female body has two functions, mothering and sexuality. And that is how nature intended it to be. How ever you feel is just fine, and normal. Just be confident and comfortable in both aspect of it, and things will fall into place.
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Old 04-03-2008, 04:58 PM   #14
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Well, IMO they were never off limits. But The Hubby has this fifthgrader icky factor where he's freaked out that he'll get some BM on him so he won't touch them at all while I BF
I have an overactive letdown and can't...umn....do the horizontal hello without squirting somewheres so I has to wear a bra
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Old 04-03-2008, 05:03 PM   #15
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Re: Very personal TMI question...

I know that when my DS was up to 6 mos, they were off limits totally, but later, when he nursed less often (now, actually, he's been weaned for 3 days @ 18mos!) my DH was allowed free reign again.
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Old 04-03-2008, 05:05 PM   #16
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They are off limits.. It just ruins the mood. I keep a bra on...
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Old 04-03-2008, 05:10 PM   #17
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Off limits while nursing and it is very hard for both of us.

The other night I did not have a bra on, never was a problem with the other two, and I leaked ALL OVER the bed. So, not only are they off limits I have to wear a bra.

So, now I am off to find a little nicer nursing bra!
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Old 04-04-2008, 09:28 AM   #18
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not a tmi at all. With my first I leaked so much that I lived in a bra until 2 weeks after she weaned. With my 2nd it was about the same. My ex wasn't thrilled with getting covered with milk either. This time around has been totally different. Boobs are not off limits. He knows what he can and can't do if he doesn't want a face full of milk. HTH
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I have to say, mine are not off limits unless they are sore. From day one, I told him that as long as they weren't hurting, he could have at them. For the first 6 months, he would just ask before hand. Now that DS is closing in on a year, they are fine. And this may be TMI but DH actually likes the little bit of BM that comes out. He says it is sweet. Hopefully that means that he will want to keep getting me pregnant so that I will lactate!
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Old 04-04-2008, 10:28 AM   #20
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I have to say that mine are currently off limits, pregnancy just made them huge & Heavy & now nursing they just leak constantly (well it seems like it), so I really can't go too long without a bra on. With DS, around 6 months it changed a bit when we introduced solids, so we will have to see about this time around.
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