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Old 09-25-2006, 10:18 PM   #11
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You know what I find fishy? That she had NO address for her paypal account!!!!!!!

That would scream "not good" to me. LOL

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Old 09-25-2006, 10:37 PM   #12
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You know what I find fishy? That she had NO address for her paypal account!!!!!!!

That would scream "not good" to me. LOL

I couldnt agree more!
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Old 09-26-2006, 12:33 AM   #13
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You know what I find fishy? That she had NO address for her paypal account!!!!!!!

That would scream "not good" to me. LOL
Actually, all that could mean is she accidentally chose "service" or something for her transaction type rather than "goods".....for anything other goods, an address or even the option to ship via paypal isn't available.

I'd have to agree with the majority here.....as a seller, its your responsibility to get proof of delivery (which is really, proof of shipping as well - if you could prove it was shipped, you probably wouldn't have needed to give a full refund).
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Old 09-26-2006, 12:46 AM   #14
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Old 09-26-2006, 02:39 AM   #15
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Re: What to do - leave neutral or what?

I think that you were wrong in leaving neutral feedback. Would you have done that if that package wasn't lost? You can speculate all day that she is lying about delivery but you are one who cannot even prove that you shipped it.
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Old 09-26-2006, 10:10 AM   #16
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Re: What to do - leave neutral or what?

I agree with everyone else. It's the sellers responsibilty to get a DC# (in the eyes of PP - a DC# doesnt do a darn thing for the buyer). I would be pretty ticked off as the buyer if I truly didnt get these diapers and as a seller I wouldnt directly assume she did get them and was lying and then I came online to find that I had a nuetral even when I paid for the diapers (reguardless of how long it took her to 'finalize' the deal you could have told her I need the money NOW or whatever).

I dunno. I dont think it was cool either. It's not her you should be mad at it - it's the PO if it was lost which it very well could be. I guess you'll never know.

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Old 09-26-2006, 10:29 AM   #17
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Personally, I won't ship to any address other than her PP addy. It sounds off to me. It takes 30 seconds to change your information with PP.
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Old 09-26-2006, 10:34 AM   #18
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Well, like Jodi said, her addy may not have been there because she choose "services" instead of "goods" so the addy isn't needed for "services". Selecting services *may* take away the addy and I know it does take away the ship button so you cannot even ship via paypal.
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Old 09-26-2006, 10:38 AM   #19
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I'm pretty suprised that neutral was left. I'm betting that had this happened to you - you purchased something, the buyer forgot to purchase DC and the package never arrived - you would would have asked for a refund as well and you would have been pretty upset to receive a neutral feedback for that - no matter what your feedback score was.
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Old 09-26-2006, 11:28 AM   #20
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If it took several weeks to finalize, then I would be on the fence about positive or neutral. I recently had a transaction with a mama who shipped the package without DC. I did NOT get it. I truly believe she did ship it, as she pmd me the day it went out and it was on a $6 transaction. It was also only 2 states away from me. But, it never came. I contacted the mama and she made things right. We both left positive feedback.

So, it does happen that things don't make it. It makes me wonder if the PO isn't more careful with DC packages since they know they have to put the info in the system. KWIM? She sent another cover, instead of refunding, which is what I wanted. This time with DC and it made it in 3 days...first class. So like I said, it does seem that the PO is more careful with dc packages. It's a thought.
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