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Old 10-03-2006, 05:38 PM   #1
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Would it be wrong of me...

to PM someone who I had a great transaction with and ask that they leave feedback? I have already left + feedback for them and just assumed they would do the same... but I haven't recieved any from them yet and it's been a couple weeks. It was one of my first transactions and don't know exactly how I'm supposed to handle this. I really want the feedback and to get rid of the PMs that I've saved (just in case). Any thoughts on this or maybe I should just wait longer??? Please LMK what you think!

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Old 10-03-2006, 05:41 PM   #2
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Re: Would it be wrong of me...

I would pm them and say that I have left you fb and would really appreciate it if they would do the same. Sometimes I forget, I personally have reminded people and I actually like for people to remind me if I've forgot. HTH
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Old 10-03-2006, 05:41 PM   #3
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There is nothing wrong with sending a nice reminder
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Old 10-03-2006, 05:59 PM   #4
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I'd ask them nicely to leave you feedback ~ it wouldn't bother me at all if someone asked me. I know i forget to leave it sometimes...
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Old 10-03-2006, 06:10 PM   #5
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There is nothing wrong with sending a nice reminder
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Old 10-03-2006, 06:29 PM   #6
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Re: Would it be wrong of me...

I agee. I would pm the person. (Hope it wasn't me )

I know sometimes I have a lot going on and even though I try to leave it as soon as I receive payment, sometimes I forget.
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Old 10-03-2006, 11:32 PM   #7
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Re: Would it be wrong of me...

I'm bad at feedback. Most of the time I'm buying so many things and deleting to keep my inbox clear, and I lose track of mama's names. I should really work on this.
If someone asked me I really wouldn't be offended.
(Watch me have mama's beating down my door now lol.)
I WILL get better at this. I promise.
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Old 10-03-2006, 11:41 PM   #8
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a friendly pm is fine
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Old 10-03-2006, 11:47 PM   #9
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Re: Would it be wrong of me...

Thank you all for your replies... everything has been settled and I was able to delete all of my old PMs!
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Old 10-04-2006, 12:15 AM   #10
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I actually got neurotic once and went through all the FB I've left, matched it with what I've received... those that I've left FB and didn't have a reciprocating one (there was 7).. I PM'ed... then the ones that have left me FB and I hadn't left them (there was 3), I immediately left FB.

yes... I had too much time on my hands
yes... I'd had three beers by that time
yes... I wanted that FB dang it!!

I got the missing FB within three days from all of them. I sent out a really nice PM stating when we'd done the transaction and what it was for (I'm horrible at remembering, so I figured a gentle reminder of that transaction would ring a bell for them). No one killed me or got snippy... and all of them said "thank you, I'm sorry, I just got so busy I forgot."

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