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Old 07-15-2008, 09:10 PM   #11
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I am so sorry mama.

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Old 07-15-2008, 09:13 PM   #12
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Oh honey, I am so sorry. You are completely validated in feeling like she was yours. We bond very quickly with babies. Take your time and grieve. It truly is a loss.
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Momma, I am so sorry! I know that nothing is going to make you feel better but time and prayer, but just remember that God doesn't make mistakes...and He doesn't give us anything we can't handle!
Thank you mama. I know I just keep reminding myself that He is in control and that He must have something better for me in the future. Even though I don't understand everthing now, that He knows all and He will be glorified no matter what. What was meant for evil, God will use for good.
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Old 07-15-2008, 09:18 PM   #13
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I am so sorry you had to go through all of that...
I wonder if she was being pressured into adoption at all by family or church? Especially when they were looking for someone for her like that?
I know I conceived a child via rape just after my 14th bday and was under extreme pressure by others- I was disowned by literally EVERYONE I knew (family, friends etc even my Dr's office) when I refused to get an abortion or give him up for adoption... I know it doesn't help how you are feeling now...its just a thought...

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Awww that is devastating, I'm so sorry.
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Old 07-15-2008, 10:00 PM   #15
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I'm so sorry to hear your story! How heartbreaking. My BIL and his wife went through a similar situation about a year ago. Their counsler said they needed to be sure to treat it like the true loss of a child and allow yourselves to grieve. Please take care!
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how heartbreaking! I just can't imagine how hard it is for you right now to have that precious little girl in your arms and then be told I changed my mind

I am so very sorry for your loss
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I am so sorry that this happened - it's devastating.
Please know that I am thinking of you. If you need any help in discussing this with children, let me know, I've had to do that myself (and it's very very hard).
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Oh, Delana. I am so sorry you had to endure this pain. I pray the Lord showers your family with blessings and comfort.
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