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Old 08-09-2008, 07:40 PM   #1
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A Different Trip to the Same Place

A Different Trip to the Same Place

Deciding to have a baby is like planning a trip to Australia: You’ve heard that it is a wonderful place.

You’ve read many guidebooks and feel certain that you’re ready to go. Everyone you know has traveled there by plane. They say it can be a turbulent flight with occasional rough landings, but you can look forward to being pampered on the trip.

So you go to the airport and ask the ticket agent for a ticket to Australia. All around you excited people are boarding planes for Australia. It seems there is no seat for you; you’ll have to wait for the next flight. Impatient, but anticipating a wonderful trip, you wait…and wait…and wait.

Flights to Australia continue to come and go. People say silly things like “Relax, you’ll get on a flight soon.” Other people actually get on a plane and then cancel their trip, to which you cry, “It’s not fair!”

After a long time, the ticket agent tells you, “I’m sorry, we’re not going to be able to get you on a plane to Australia. Perhaps you should think about going by boat.”

“By boat!” you say. “Going by boat will take a very long time and it costs a great deal of money. I really had my heart set on going by plane.” So you go home and think about not going to Australia at all. You wonder if Australia will be as beautiful if you approach it by sea rather than air. But you have long dreamed of this wonderful place for so long and finally you decide to travel by boat.

It is a long trip; many months over many rough seas. No one pampers you. You wonder if you will ever see Australia. Meanwhile, your friends have flown back and forth to Australia two or three more times, marveling about each trip.

Then one glorious day, the boat docks in Australia. It is more exquisite than you ever imagined and the beauty is magnified by your long days at sea. You have made many wonderful friends during your voyage and you find yourself comparing stories with others who also traveled by sea rather than by air.

People continue to fly to Australia as often as they like, but you are able to travel only once, perhaps twice. Some say things like, “Oh, be glad you didn’t fly...My flight was horrible...Traveling by sea is so easy.”

You will always wonder what it would have been like to fly to Australia. Still you know that God blessed you with a special appreciation for Australia and that the beauty of Australia is not in the way you got there, but in the place itself.

Enjoy your trip!!!

By Diane Armitage

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Old 08-10-2008, 01:27 PM   #2
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Wow, that is amazing! It is so dead on, I love it. I am going to save it, thank you so much for sharing it.
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Old 08-11-2008, 02:49 PM   #3
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I LOVE this--I've read it before, but thanks for sharing it again--it's too great not to keep going back to. I'm going to post it on my blog for friends & family to read so that maybe they can understand what adoption like...or at least have a little better understanding of what we're facing.
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Old 08-12-2008, 03:08 PM   #4
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Thanks so much for posting that. It really hits home for those on the adoption rollarcoaster like my DH and myself. I'm plan to share this with all my family and friends.
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Old 08-13-2008, 12:47 PM   #5
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This reminds me of WELCOME TO HOLLAND by Emily Perl Kingsley. Very sweet.
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Old 08-13-2008, 01:20 PM   #6
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Beautiful.
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Thank you - that really hit home!
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