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Old 08-28-2008, 06:50 AM   #11
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It will all work out!! I second calling a Dr. right now because of the IUD

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Old 08-28-2008, 07:31 AM   #12
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Wow, Congrats!!! That is a very dark BFP.
I am sure your dh will warm up and come around eventually. Just give him the time he needs to soak it in and adjust. It was very obviously meant to be.
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Old 08-28-2008, 08:04 AM   #13
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Get to the dr today.IUD's can cause major problems.I'm sure he will come around especially if you're honest with him.Afterall,he helped in this as well.GL!!!
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Old 08-28-2008, 11:18 AM   #14
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My DH was totally content with the 3 children that we already had. Honestly I had mixed feelings when I got the BFP b/c I was "scared" to tell him (even though he is the most amazing husband and father!). When he got home from work that evening and I told him I could tell that he was pretending to be happy. He was uncharacteristically quiet the rest of that evening and I just gave him his space. Before leaving for work the next morning he gave me a big hug and told me that he really was happy and that this baby is a true blessing . He just needed some time to let it sink in and get things together in his own mind.

Congrats to you on your new blessing! Everything will work out!!!
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My 20 month old son (our 4th child after 3 girls) was a surprise pregnancy. We had infertility problems for almost 10 years, and dh put off having a vasectomy thinking we would never get pregnant naturally. When I took the test and saw it was positive, my hands were shaking. When he came home, I just told him. I thought he might be upset and angry, but he smiled and hugged me.
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OMG Jordan!! Congrats and hugs! I hope everything turns out alright. Keep us updated!!
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Old 08-28-2008, 11:26 AM   #17
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Start a conversation with "Nature is funny, isn't it??" and go from there.

Congratulations. This is a GOOD thing!
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Thanks mamas. Updated in first post.
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I'm sure he was just really crabby from being tired.And it's good you're getting in to see the dr so soon.
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I wanted to let you know that my friend had a IUD in and got preggers too...only becasue the IUD was not longer in.

You're DH will be happy about another little messy head running around the house, you were shocked at first too I'm sure.
My parents never paid for our college (my 2 brothers and I)and we still love them the same as if they had.
You do what you can do, your best, yah know??
You guys will be fine. Hugs girly, be happy and DH will too, or he'd better!!
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