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Old 09-15-2008, 10:07 AM   #11
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Not selfish at all. Good luck!


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Old 09-19-2008, 10:47 PM   #12
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Originally Posted by mom2jpd View Post
We have 2 bio boys and wanted a daughter. We explored many possibilities but ultimately adopted a baby from China. Our main reason for adopting could be seen as selfish or even noble, but we have a daughter + this little girl has a forever family. It's a win-win situation! We know in our hearts it's the right thing.

Totally agree on the win-win situation. I dont feel the need to give birth to a child for her or him to be mine. ANd I also dont need a baby... I have given birth to three and have done the baby thing. I just want a daughter. I think long term. I think, I think of the little girls out there who just want a mommy.
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