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Old 01-17-2009, 04:52 AM   #1
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Of all you pregnant ladies!

I know that DH and I made the right decision to stop having babies (2 out of 3 were NICU, I am miserable pregnant, pre-e all three times, chronic hypertension...plus I have muscular dystrophy) but darn it, I WANT MORE! I was so afraid of my first, and my second had a horrid infancy so I don't feel like I got to enjoy them at all...I am loving my baby girl, who is 7 months old today! They grow too fast! I don't want to give up this part of my life yet! I am only 30!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know I should feel grateful for the 3 I have...and I am. Just so sad I am not having any more!

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Old 01-17-2009, 06:08 AM   #2
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Old 01-17-2009, 06:44 AM   #3
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big mama - I can't imagine being done with this yet, but you know best for your family. I know many mamas who are done but still long for babies, I think some of us are just baby people - thank goodness for grandbabies
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Old 01-17-2009, 07:15 PM   #4
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big mama - I can't imagine being done with this yet, but you know best for your family. I know many mamas who are done but still long for babies, I think some of us are just baby people - thank goodness for grandbabies
I started dreaming of grandbabies the moment DS1 was born!
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Old 01-17-2009, 08:18 PM   #5
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Right there with you...
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Old 01-17-2009, 09:13 PM   #6
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#3 will be our last too.
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Old 01-18-2009, 01:44 PM   #7
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im pregnant and jealous of all the ladies just getting their bfps...while i know the first few months are torture with all the wondering (im a m/c mama)...this last pregnancy is going by too quickly!

and we're "finished" after this one...hubs has been very vocal about not wanting any more children, and i have to respect that...i guess.

hard tho when i feel in my heart that we're meant for at least one more.
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I am pregnant with my 4th and final baby. It does break my heart because I'm only 32, and really would love to keep having babies, I always long for a baby, and have had trouble conceiving. When hubby and I married we agreed that we wanted 4 kids and to be done by 32... and this baby happened right in time for that, but now that it is here (or almost here anyway) we are both saying that we are sad that we will be done... but I have to have section deliveries, and hubby is adamant that he is not willing to risk another section after this one. I will be getting my tubes tied and hubby is going for a big V. I already am mourning my fertility, and I think hubby is too... but he keeps reminding me of all the fun we will be able to have now that we won't have to be spending months and months trying. There will be no more temping and timing and testing and crying... so I guess it will be a mixed blessing.
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